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#1 Apr 24 - 12PM
Scoop
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The Hover man

Well didnt i say i felt him in the air and that he would be in contact , im going to get me a booth on the pier and start charging for my psychic abilities . Really though it just goes to show you how predictable these men are .
A text message asking me out tonight .
My replie i will post here
Cough .... "no you fucking arse wipe i am not out tonight crawl away and die "

My last conversation with him was during the pregnany scare when i didnt know if i was pregnant or not, one positive test then a heavy period sad as it may be .I went through that all on my own because , he sat there cold eyed telling me that he didnt love me he never had , he didnt want a baby and he didnt want me "get your shit and leave".
And now a casual text message asking me if im coming out tonight . Its unbelievable .. no wate it is believable he is a raving NARC
Scoop x

Apr 24 - 12PM
Scoop
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sorry i havnt finished , is

sorry i havnt finished , is this just one big game to them , can he not remember the terms at which we parted . Has he no concept of time ?My head is really spinning out at the moment . Help anyone i need reality ... Scoop x
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
neveragain5
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If they need you for

If they need you for something, ANYTHING, the past is forgotten until it works to their benefit to bring it up. They control EVERYTHING and they are great at doing it. He is conveniently "forgetting" what happened in the past, right now. He doesn't CARE what you went through and is incapable of thinking of anyone but himself. He will go through the motions of "caring", but only if he has something to gain from it.
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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If your head is spinning...

....you need to totally block him. Don't reply to his stupid texts, or any other means of contact. This will help you gain some clarity, and stopping more incoming influence and brainwashing. Sometimes ANY reply to an N, even a bad one is still attention...he is glad to hear from you, means you still care enough to push those little buttons on your phone just for him. Yes, they are that f***** up. No Contact.
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Scoop
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I didnt replie i wrote it on

I didnt replie i wrote it on here instead , sorry that wasnt clear . Im still in shock i think at the casualness it came through on my phone on a sat evening. i have changed my number once i cant do it again so strick no repling is in place . Scoop x
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
quietude (not verified)
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sorry

sorry about that scoop...I misread...I'm so glad you did not respond!
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
neveragain5
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I was about to write, "You

I was about to write, "You sound like you are in shock". How weird! The reality that they can dismiss someone else's pain and suffering is very shocking. It is so inhumane it is hard to comprehend. Add to that, the fact that you trusted him and he said he loved you, it can be overwhelming. It's hard not to lash out at them when they do these types of things. I saw a pattern here mine would start to push my buttons when he knew I would be horrified by what he said. My mom always told me not to respond to people that would try to bully me. She told me this for years and I used to reply, "But it makes me so MAD that they think they can treat me this way", she said "Then don't let them, they don't exist". I can finally say that my mom was right! Hang in there, Scoop!
Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
Scoop
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so now his best friend has

so now his best friend has text to see if im out tonight .. I have a stress headace .I didnt repile . Im turning phone off . Scoop x
Apr 24 - 6PM (Reply to #7)
Janet
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Be super nice to yourself

Be super nice to yourself tonight. Hang out with good friends or family. Many hugs to you; and reality check - he is a sick, selfish creep. Peace. J

Peace. J

Apr 24 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
neveragain5
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F*ck 'em! Go have a nap.:)

F*ck 'em! Go have a nap.:)