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#1 Apr 6 - 8AM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Stunned!!

well today I got the shock of my life...

about 18 years ago I was in contact with a girl I knew from high school - she's about 3 years older than me. She was at one time involved with a married man. She knew my 1st Narc boyfriend - they were "close"... she asked me a little about him and I told her what I knew... one day, out of the blue - I get an EMAIL from her telling me to never contact her again. EVER. WTF?!?!?!

Well, today I found out that not only did that 1st Narc of mine move across the country... he divorced wife #1 - and is now married to this girl I mentioned above. She must have tracked him down USING ME! 17-18 years ago! She's raving on classmates how he's the love of her life... blah blah blah...

amazing... 35 years later and people are still the same IDIOTS as always!! she must be blind but hey, 35 years of blindness I guess its ok.

Stunned... just STUNNED...

Apr 6 - 1PM
moving on
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act

I really doubt that he is treating her well. People put on an act for each other and for others to make it seem like they are normal. Neither of them is normal. If you're truly happy, you don't have to go on a website to write it out and justify it for yourself. You will just be content. That girl is a crackhead and brainwashed.
Apr 6 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
Barbara (not verified)
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she's been after him for YEARS & YEARS

they had a thing for each other back in high school in the 1970s. Well, now I know why she cut me off. She got the intel she wanted and probably went to hunt him down. Wonder how his first wife feels about it? Her first husband left his wife for her. http://www.usna79.com/Photos/Misc_Pictures/Dark%20Ages%20Ball/400pixelvadmnmowins.jpg (her in middle, him on right) What really upset me was - back in the 90s when my Dad was still alive - this guy told a whole bunch of people we both know I was obsessed & stalking him. My poor Dad got an earful and was very upset about it. As I see - I was not the one STALKING him. She finally got her wish. see ladies? these jerks do NOT change! ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 6 - 4PM
Barbara (not verified)
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unbelievable

it was so wierd - about 92 or 93 we were corresponding. she pumped me for "what happened" between us - I told her. then one day, out of the blue, I get an email from her "do not write to me ever again." 2nd marriage for both of them. She has always liked married men and he has always liked older women. He had the hots for her when he was 15 and she was 18. I guess they believe this is fate. He's now 53 and she's 56. ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 6 - 11AM
TexN (not verified)
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Wonder

What kind of marriage they have! Love of her life??? Could he possibly be acting that freakin long?? My exN swears he's a changed man & nothing like the old him...
Apr 6 - 9AM
quietude (not verified)
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how strange

...and pretty sad actually. She might wake up one day, and when she does, she'll be smacking her forehead at the thought of wasting so many years on a looney-toon.
Apr 6 - 9AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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wow......

sadly, there are women out there who will do ANYTHING to get a man....or something that passes for one..... he might really be the love of her life...two Narcs colliding...just sit back and wait for the explosion...
Apr 6 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
sparky2009
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Yes it is down right

Yes it is down right surprising how desperate some women are .. My ex is broke with all these kids running around and she even witnessed the D&D first hand that he did to me while pregnant she watched me every day at work ! She will get hers... what goes around comes around ...
Apr 6 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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users

1991 she contacted me via email and PUMPED ME FOR INTEL ON HIM!! I told her the truth out of the blue she suddenly - CAN'T SPEAK TO ME ANYMORE. She used me to track him down... and another woman who believes their B.S. He, like Psycho-Boy, told her I was a liar... yeah... she'll get hers... ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 7 - 3AM (Reply to #4)
itreallyisabouthim
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What a trip! Sounds like a

What a trip! Sounds like a match made in heaven.
Apr 7 - 6AM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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complete trip

he's the LOVE OF HER LIFE! it's FATE that after over 30 years they are FINALLY TOGETHER he was the first Narc I ever dated, sex addict, liar, user, manipulator... incredible really... sounds like bad movie to me, lol ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals