birthday/holidays

Yesterday was my b-day, had a lot of txts, phone calls from family and friends-was happy til a friend of exN was at gym and said, exN told me to tell you happy b-day and hope you are happy. And I thought-well,yeah now that he's out of my life. But it affected me and ruined my mood for the day. Now, I have to go to the gym at different times so his friends will not know when I go. He must have spy friends. I was tempted to txt him, but thought about all the miserable things he had done to me and the thought disappeared quickly.Thank God I found this site to go to in time of weakness.