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#1 November 16, 2017 - 11:37am


My NARC always wanted/wants to hug. Even after no contact, he came at me with a hug. I felt this hug was controlling. I did not respond. How many other NARCs use hugging? Is this a common?

November 29, 2017 - 2:06pm


My narc is a member of my church. Although he does not attend often, every 30 days or so, he swoops in to see how I am doing, and either hugs, or stares at me. I think he has given up now. I was wondering about the hug thing. Is this a common control thing with narcs?

November 29, 2017 - 1:56pm


Hey there... sorry, just now seeing this. Good for you by not responding to his hugs... hopefully you want have to receive any more hugs from him. The goal, if at all possible, is to go completely no contact so you aren't subjected to his "control" attempts. I am not familiar with your story. Is there a reason you have to continue seeing him on occasionally? Stay strong dear... xoxo


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