First semi-Hoover
First semi-Hoover
So, my ex husband the narc brought our son back home after spending the last two days with him. Things have been great between us lately (healthy boundaries, short, kind and friendly exchanges when dropping off or picking up our son, or making arrangements about our son). So we were just chatting a bit about some funny stuff our son did while he was with his dad. Then as ex-N was walking out the door, he looks at me and says (in a seductive type voice), "what are YOU lookin at?" And looks down at his crotch! His eyes were all low and everything too, very suggestive. Then he shuts the door and leaves! I was awestruck because, since we split and he moved in immediately with the other woman (still lives there) nothing like this has happened.
Then my mind went to fantasies of us having sex and how "good" it would feel if he cheated on her with me. Or course I know this wouldn't really feel good and would open a horrible can of worms. So I texted him and asked what he meant by that he and he said he thought he had something on his pants or something. Ughhh. I wish I wouldn't have texted him. It's been over a year since I've had sex and I guess I was just horny!
Any advice or support from those who've had similar things is appreciated! As always,
Very thankful for this site :) love to everyone.
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Ariel28...keep your boundaries strong
I am so disappointed in myself.
You are still listening to his WORDS
Thank you Goldie!! This is
This will never change until
This is your lucky day
This is how I joined Goldie
I can't stand these guys -
all it means is.... nothing.
Now he is texting me
Stay Strong, Ariel28
Thank you for your reply. I
Hi Ariel. I'm sorry your ex
Atta girl, Ariel28!