The Narc is Back..

Well, I thought I was rid of him for good when he was a "no show" for court but today he called & had to screw up my vacation day. My kids were on spring break this week so i took the day off to take them to do something fun. I slept in for once, only to be awoken by my business cell phone. I didn't reach the phone on time & saw that i had four missed calls from that number. I didn't recognize the number but being HR manager, I thought it could be one of our employees. Nope! It was the narc! Right off the bat, he started with his bs. He said, why did you hang up on me & then call me from a blocked number? I said, what are u talkin about, you woke me up! He said, Anyway, i just called to tell you i contacted child support & I asked my new employer to take out the child support plus an additional $100 a week until i get caught up. He said, i told u bout my new job, right? (Like i cared!) He said, yeah, i'll be workin for a local company now & I'm not going to be working out on the road anymore (he's been on the road since I've known him). I asked him where he was living & he said "nowhere". I said, u sleepin in your truck? He said, no, i sometimrs stay at a buddy's house & sometimes stay at my gf's, his gf of 10 mths. He said he knew it wasn't his weekend but could he get dd & take her to visit relatives. Here he hasn't seen our dd in 7 mths (by his choice!), & now wants to get her?! WTF?! Of course I said no but damn it to hell, here he goes stirring up shit again...DD hadn't made a peep about him in weeks! I had it all planned out... I was banking on him not seeing her for 12 mths (we're at 7 mths now), I was banking on him going 12 mths of no child support. My lawyer said that at that point we would have a good case to relinquish his rights but NO, the son of a bitch has to screw it all up by starting his bs payments & trying to get back in her life! I absolutely hate him! He f***ed up my damn day by just hearing his voice (sounded all chirpy bout his new job). I ended up being in a bad mood, snapping at the kids for no reason! Before he hung up, i asked him why he didn't show up to court. He said, what are u talkin about??? I said, Oh my God, don't act stupid! He asked what it was about & i said modification of visitations. He asked what i wanted to modify & i said, u should have shown up & u could have found out! I was so pissed i don't even know how the conversation ended or who hung up first...My previous worthless lawyer never did an order for enforcement (for the owed child support) so now my new lawyer has to get with him to see what was said that day or we'll have to buy the transcript. Which means a warrant has not been issued for his arrest (& now he's going to start makin pyments... Just f***n great!) Once we get the transcript, does anyone knows what happens next & how long the process is???...I swear, its almost like he's being warned right before i can nail his ass! Yeah. He's being warned by his father, satan!