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#1 Mar 25 - 11AM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Jesse James Exposed!

Do you think Jesse's obvious psychopathic traits will bring attention to the evil ones amongst us? We need to get Barbara and Lisa on Oprah!
Hope Sandra finds this website......
You guys don't know it....but you're my lifeline right now.
NO ONE understands what I'm going through, but all of you.
I go through motions, but when I visit this website, it's like talking to friends that understand. I'm sorry it happened to any of us.
These droids with dicks should be stopped! I think so anyway...

Mar 25 - 7PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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i just wonder

if he leaked the news himself..in a Narc rage over her winning the Oscar...wanted to humiliate her....
Mar 25 - 7PM (Reply to #19)
Kelly
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For sure

I would totally believe that.
Mar 25 - 6PM
Kelly
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POS

Feeling dumb . . . what is a POS?
Mar 25 - 6PM (Reply to #17)
enoughalready
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narcmagnet

I think it means piece of *hit. What does LMOA-i feel dumb too.
Mar 25 - 6PM (Reply to #15)
enoughalready
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narcmagnet

I think it means piece of *hit. What does LMOA-i feel dumb too.
Mar 25 - 6PM (Reply to #16)
quietude (not verified)
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LMAO

laughing my a$$ off
Mar 25 - 6PM (Reply to #13)
quietude (not verified)
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narcmagnet

Piece Of Sh** By the way #4 breaking, no name yet. What Sandra must be going through... :(
Mar 25 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
Kelly
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I love you Sandra!

She's so tough! She'll bounce back. His career is gonna tank after this. What a loser!
Mar 25 - 2PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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what a POS.....

wonder how many chicks he'll be able to get when he's working at jiffy lube?...
Mar 25 - 2PM
quietude (not verified)
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well lookie here...

Oh boy, he's pulling a Tiger alright, #3 just came out! http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/03/25/entertainment/main6331946.shtml
Mar 25 - 8PM (Reply to #10)
Barbara (not verified)
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#3 and #4

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/girl_no_claims_affair_with_james_BK6pMkzSv2PTrkTUaLu4ZL ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Mar 25 - 1PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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jesse james....

what a POS....no surprise...
Mar 25 - 1PM
Barbara (not verified)
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no thanks

I have no intention of appearing on Oprah. Ever. Oprah and her shrinks-du-jour have dissed many N and P victims over the years as stupid, gullible.. etc. Besides Oprah's the biggest N on television. ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Mar 25 - 12PM
foolmeonce
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Learning about Narcissism

Wouldn't it be great if we could warn everyone? However, the fact is if you were watching it on Oprah and you were in the honeymoon phase of your N relationship, how would you react? Wouldn't you say to yourself "God am I ever glad that's not me, I am so thankful to have ____ in my life" You would never think to yourself that the man of your dreams is an N. Even if you were past the honeymoon phase, you still wouldn't want to believe it. Haven't we all been there? We all were exposed to the numerous red flags and refused to put it together. It's only after you go thru the cycle over and over again and when you feel you have completely lost your mind and you go NC do you even begin to realize that you were in fact in a relationship with a full blown N. Even at this point, many refuse to believe that the N cannot change. So I think that education will help those that have been damaged - it will help them realize they are not alone and are not crazy. (As this board has done for me) But I honestly don't think it will stop people from entering into or continuing a relationship. It is so sad, because I feel it's a battle we cannot win. Even if we expose them, there is always someone out there willing to believe their lies and give them the benefit of the doubt.
Mar 25 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
Kelly
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They don't get it

I think the people here are those who have the courage to finally do something about getting out of the cycle. Serious self-reflection going on here. Serious understanding of manipulation and seduction by abusers/narcissists/psychopaths. Not everyone is willing to adapt and open their eyes. They just stay on the rollercoaster (like I was) wondering "why me" and "what did I do wrong." So much easier (illusion of safety) to believe the abuser that you are the problem. Good people don't want to see evil. They look away and pretend it isn't there.
Mar 25 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
gullablegull (not verified)
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guess

Guess that's why my name is GullableGull! :) I should have known, and yes, Oprah probably is an N herself. You're all correct. I was the same way....even when he left, I could not understand? It was through diligence and determination that I HAD to know what had happened. I had to know all of the truth, so I could get closure and move on. Still doing the moving on part, with all of your help. Thanks for the reality reminder.
Mar 25 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
narcsurvivor
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I too felt that without

I too felt that without answers I simply couldn't walk away, as I had tried to do so many times before. My sister told me to just move on, that being with a nice guy will fix everything. She has no concept of narcissism (I think she is a borderline narcissist but I'm still trying to work that out in my head). It wasn't until I found narcissism information online that it began to dawn on me and I had the revelation of a lifetime.
Mar 26 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
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You were wiser than I

You were wiser than I was....I lived in it, willfully, knowing something was terribly wrong, but afraid to change anything. My stbx N/P would throw me a bone every now and then, and I assumed it was his bipolar that made his behavior seem odd to me. It wasn't until he left us, telling me he wanted to die...that he needed to live in solitude????I worried about him for 3 months and he would not contact us, then discovered his two year affair? It all started coming together then. I knew he hated to be alone..he was like a child the way he always wanted attention! I have two children, and neither were ever as demanding as he was! I went through 3 months of wanting to just die, the holidsays no less...then, I found out he has done an illegal prenup, never paid the medical bills, tried to stiff me for over 4K in taxes, and on and on and on. It's as if the family is dead to him now, but he's taking good care of his new gf, the one that was married for 28 yrs and left her husband and child to be with him. Boy! Is she in for a surprise!! I know how perfectly awesome he is when he's in pursuit..I know exactly the heavenly treatment she's getting right now, and I also know what she's in for when the honeymoon is over! She can have him and his dead white horse!
Mar 26 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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yet another woman comes forward

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2010/03/26/woman-says-slept-jesse-james-sandra-bullock-wont-attend-kinds-choice/ ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims