The WHACK is BACK

Ok I have just been hovered 3 times this morning. First, he called my personal cell phone from a number I don't know (probably one of his dumb womanizer friends he works with) - he is the only person I know that lives in his state and therefore I did not answer because I saw the area code and knew it had to be him!! LUCKILY, my crazy mother has been harassing the crap out of me since Mother's Day (I don't answer any of her calls or texts for almost 4 years now but she constantly changes her # (NARC) so I have stopped even trying to keep it blocked) - anyway she has blown up my phone so much that she filled up my voice mail ENTIRELY and because I haven't bothered to check them my Voice Mail Box was FULL so he was rejected and couldn't leave a message!! FUCKER!!!!!

So then, he called me on my work phone from his office phone and I saw it was him and didn't answer. He left a message but I haven't listened to it.

THEN, he proceeds to send me an email at work :

"Narcphobia, I tried calling you but didn't get any response. I thought you were mad at me and I figured when u weren't mad anymore u'd let me know, but I haven't heard from you. Call me when you get an opportunity so we can talk"

Is it possible that he thought he was in ST mode all this time?? I guess he is only just realizing that I am ignoring his ST and am not speaking to him on my own terms - yes, I have stayed strong when he has tried to break me and I have not uttered a peep other than to send him info he requested and not another word, even when he tried to break me by letting me know in so many words that "his life was finally where he needed it to be for us to be together"

Well I don't feel broken like I did last week. I see how pathetic this all really is. It really is like a circus and he is the main show.

I will not respond to any of this at all. I have to admit in a small way I feel validated and I'm not going to let him take that small satisfaction away from me. FUCK HIM!!