Newbies

Hello all. This is for the newbies - I am three years out from the relationshit from hell.... two years two months NC. Gradually through every emotion known to man, I am finally free. I am me again. Older by three years but those three years have brought strength and wisdom and it may seem very odd, but there is a part of me that is grateful for the experience. I am now me, again. But as I stated, stronger and wiser. It is/was an awakening, of sorts. He is supposedly happily married now.. it does not hurt anymore. It really doesn't. And it does not matter if he was an N or P or any other PD. It does not matter if he treats her like a queen.
What does matter, is how he treated me. I could not allow myself to be mistreated. And I was. Of course, he denied it. But, had that been true, I would not have done three years in hell nor would I even be on this forum.
It gets better. It does. Believe it - believe them. Lisa Goldie Hunter Journey Used Spinning Janie DS and several others who will sometimes kick your butt :)) but it is truly in your best interests - they know the ropes and they are an awesome group of people that are on your side. Good luck and many wishes for a long happy and healthy life to all.