Seeing is believing...

I have had the pleasure of spending the last two wonderful (sarcastic) days with Narczilla and OW. I used to have so much anxiety over meeting with them for the custody exchanges of my two kids. Now, I'm feeling rather confident as I show I don't give a shit, and don't reinforce their bad behavior.

I have to take the kids to the doctor, and school orientation, which "super dad" insisted on going to of course. Whatever, so here comes Narc and OW. He has been giving me the silent treatment and I have actually been enjoying it to tell you the truth. OW and I have been doing the communicating about the kids. Is this awkward... at first, yes. When I was out of state I needed to communicate with my kids and she was my only option. What was intended for my harm, actually turned into a window of what their life is really like.

At the doctor's office, she is constantly trying to prove herself to him.

OW and I go on about the normal discussions of, "what's up with the kids", Narc is in the corner, listening in. Apparently, I seem happy and don't care that I am talking to OW, so Narc breaks silent treatment and starts trying to get in the conversation.

OW is now looking at him like, "what the hell?".

I watch as he openly flirts with the nurse in front of OW. I asked her, "Oh, so you guys know the nurse?". She responded with an exhausted look, "No, HE knows her". LOL. Been there, done that :)

I watch as she tries to get into the conversations now. The Dr. is asking myself and Narc questions about the kids. She would try to give input, and he would give her a dirty look. I figured he wanted to seem as though he was the one in control.

He keeps staring at me in that creepy way that only Narcs can do.

At my son's school, OW is toting my kids around while Narc casually strolls in.

She is completely left out.

I asked them if they had received the teacher's cell number. They hadn't so I offered to give it to OW. He snaps at her,"Why don't you just take a picture of it?". She snapped right back, "Would you give me a damn minute!?". I couldn't help but to smile.

OW is at the point where she is frustrated doing all of the work. She is frustrated of taking care of children that are not hers. Frustrated living in his parents house. Frustrated watching him flirt with everyone. Frustrated, because she knows something isn't right, but can't figure it out. Let the triangulation begin...

Grateful he's not mine,
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