Not Sure what is with the super tough love
Not Sure what is with the super tough love
Hi guys,
I just wanted to say thank you for those who have been supportive and loving. I am starting to feel like there is some shaming going on in some peoples responses. I assume everyone comes here because they feel a sense of loss or a sense of being broken by the past N. Digging up the root issues and realizing you didn't mean shit to someone you once cared about can leave people feeling humbled and disarmed as it is. I know for myself anyway that I already carry a great deal of shame for allowing myself to stay in something that I understand now to be unreal... I have been a bit shocked and felt belittled at times when I have an honest question ( from people who have been there before ) and I get a harsh response. I don't think it has to be kittens and unicorns but I know all of us women and men process things differently. We are of different ages and have different pasts. I guess for me what I am trying to say is that I am starting to feel like I can't post what I am honestly going through without being shamed for it....not with everyone just some... I think we should all be understanding ...loving and supportive...after all we have been through enough ( anyone who has dated a Narc has)...
setmefree
hunter
So if you know what works and
I am
setmefree
I couldnt have said it better.
jack guy
What I wrote was not for your
Tough Love
I have felt the same . . .
Was not meant to be a debate
First of all.....
I haven't
Pumpkin
My Intention
A perspective, my letting go of old thinking was not easy
Journey
Tone...
Thank you
I've felt the same at times...
setmefree
"I am starting to feel like I
Journey on...
journey
I have seen things on here I
Personally I agree. It's not
I am not saying
I'm curious ... In a perfect
Setmefree, as a long standing
Journey on...
Tough love
I agree. I get tremendous
I talk to people here exactly