pathetic

ok, so i have been away from narc for a year and a month. discarded and left virtually penniless. 11 year marriage. i am much better, was quickly replaced with ow and her 3 kids...this man cheated was abusive to me and i was his virtual slave. i have done the work in the path forward and I GET IT. it is always about them. never about us. WE ARE ALL THE OW.
we have low contact due to shared custody of our child.he texts me some thing about our daughter, i text back, send him some pics. ( we were in hawaii for a vacation paid for by my sister who was once snowed by the narc, but gets it, now ) he sends me an email for a "job" and it was some cheesy scam pyramid marketing scheme. in other words, had i signed up , it would have benefitted him. his ow used to try and make extra cash with mary kay, and other things. in fact, she once blatantly tried to sell me cosmetics as she was banging my husband unbeknownst to myself and her own husband.

anyhow, i deleted it.

they are so pathetic, it is like they can be the most abusive , mean, petty assholes in the world and don't realize their behavior at all, it is like they act as if the last 11 years of abuse NEVER HAPPENED.

THEY ARE ALL TOO PREDICTABLE.

think of the most unbelievable scenario and then triple it. that is the narc.

they truly have no shame when it comes to their former victims.

once you GET IT, you see it immediately , and it is PATHETIC AND LAUGHABLE.

I married this guy?

what was i thinking?

do the steps, don't worry about the hoover, they will come when he is bored for the moment. THEY MEAN NOTHING.

always about him.

no remorse or apology for what he did, no closure .

our closure is knowing he is a narcissist and WILL NEVER CHANGE.

I REALLY REALLY REALLY GET IT. SORRY FOR SHOUTING!

THIS SITE ROCKS! thanks for helping me get myself back!