does he know?

you know what is strange is that i really dont think my narc has any idea what he is doing. he isn't the blatantly mean kind of narc that i read about in some of your posts. in fact, the opposite. but he preys on women in such way that is so obvious to me. and when he drops them like a hot potato, he sees aboslutely nothing wrong with it. i am begining to feel such compassion for these women. nc is still really hard but the reality of who he is keeps me for any sort of contact.