avoidance or protection

hiya all

just wondered how you handled the avoid the places you might bump into them thing.

I actually think I am hiding.... not avoiding. I havent been out to any of the places I love in nearly two months now because of the N. its like I just darent. Im not sure how I would manage and I dont want to be hurt by seeing N with other w.

There is probably very little chance we would bump into each other so its like my fear of it is out of proportion.

how have you handled this?

Thanks Toots xx