Is this FINALLY it??

Just a recap, my ex Narc moved 50 miles away with OW and her 2 children at end of January. This OW, has told me that my daughter is not his daughter and HE has told me that OW is going to take me to court for him to gain access to my daughter (who is almost 2 yrs old and doesn't know him, HIS fault).

The hoovering was unbelieveable. He made lots of attempts to ask to see 'our' daughter, and on occasion has caught me out twice by appearing at my house and updating me with his 'BS', swearing undying love, telling me he wants me back, he is unhappy........then changing his mind telling me he can't be with me, and running back to OW.

On his last visit 3 weeks ago, he told me he was accused by OW family of molesting her daughter (his visits ALWAYS end in tears for me...) and before that they were pumping the child with adult sleeping pills (obviously to get the kid out of the way). He also told me he doesn't get along with the child at all (in other words, he bullies and abuses her..)..I was left spinning, once again, with a scrambled egg head for a few days and so angry, that once more, he made a play for me, for it to all end in tears and rejection and ABUSE..grrrrrr (I get so mad at myself for even listening)

After his final visit, I said some very horrible things, ridiculed him, told him if he ever cam near us again, I would send OW all the 'hoovering' emails (which include dirty photos of HIM, and obsessive love-bombing)and generally cause him some real shit...........

I have informed my Solicitor of ALL of this to protect my daughter. I know he speaks non-stop BS, but it has all been logged. I haven't yet taken it any further BECAUSE.....

He has gone SILENT..........not a word for the last 3 weeks, not a text, or an email, or a visit, or contact at work............NOTHING!!

He told me during the blagging phase, that he has a secret phone, that he uses just for ME!! This phone is STILL switched on...........(my curiosity....grrr). So it was ANOTHER lie.........why run 2 phones, when we aren't speaking??

I should be enjoying the SILENCE, but as time passes, I am actually quite scared.

My question is, is this IT? Has he GONE for good, to leave me alone and never be seen again, or is he going to pop up when I least expect it and start his BS all oever again.

I feel as though I am still not safe to breathe, our daughter will be 2 in 8 weeks time, and I just wondering what the next drama is going to be.

I am not sleeping, or eating properly, (goes to show how much he has traumatised me..........).

Am I being stupid and paranoid??? Or is he likely to 'reappear' in my life and start this up all over again???