Update

O.K. so I talked to my lawyer today, I saw my counselor today and I have a game plan and I'm feeling good.

I've found a place for me and Chelsea to stay - I won't be here when he gets here and I'm giving him notice that he has x amount of days to get the rest of his shit in one trip or I'm getting rid of it.

I'm stepping out of my codependant comfort zone and the role that is most natural for me and I'm going to take care of me and do what is in my best interests.

Thank you all so much for always being here for me and I'll update tomorrow if possible.

Yea me!