I'm not 1-800- Dial-Supply!

Last night I received 2 absurd texts "I really need someone to talk to..." Followed 30 minutes later by "Can I come by and talk to you." He also called without leaving a message. First time he's dialed me since I told him to lose my number after yelling "You fucking asshole" loud enough for woman in his bed to hear... (I can't block numbers on my phone and can't change my number since it's my business phone, too.)

WTF?!! I have not spoken to him in 8 months and have ignored his few lame email and text hoovers which have included flattery, humor and invitations - never an apology or mention of why I went NC, of course. This appears to be a new tact if it's a pity play because he is not an N that ever used that angle in the several years we were together. In the past, he always said how much he loved talking with me, though. Not that I would have replied in any case but "I need 'someone' to talk to..." Oh, I feel so special! Not. He isn't even talking a good game anymore! I'm not spinning or flattered by this blatant boundary busting attempt "Me, me, me" hoover.

Geez! They really have no shame or ability to acknowledge reality or the passage of time, do they?