Got Narcissist Arrested, Scared of Retaliation
Got Narcissist Arrested, Scared of Retaliation
A year ago I divorced a narcissist who has since used lawyers and the law as a means to threaten and harass me. For instance my attorney receives regularly, like clockwork, a contempt threat unless I comply with one demand or another. Unfortunately we have a child together so we have to continue contact. The terms of our order give him a lot of access to our daughter even though he lives three time zones away. You would think that would provide us with some space but despite the distance he remains obssessed and harassing. I do have a restraining order against him and he has been tried several times but acquitted. Recently, right after he was acquitted of a charge he was ARRESTED in court for another restraining order violation. He is currently in jail but should be released on bail by Monday. His parents and his attorneys are terrible enablers. His parents, even though he is 30 years old, are paying all his legal bills. His parents and his attorneys were absolutely hysterical in the court house after his arrest and were screaming all kinds of threats and insults towards me and my lawyer. They said my lawyer was corrupt and unethical and that I am guilty of being a legal genius that has masterminded several systems of justice from police officers to judges to wrongfully persecute the narcissist. Wow! I am a powerful lady -- not. It's everyone's fault but his, most especially it is mine.
Though I wish I could just be happy the jerk is in jail I am worried about the retaliation to come. Having seen his lawyers and parents in full out hysterics I anticipate more BS paper being filed and having to return again to court for some fabricated retaliatory motion or another. They have unsuccessfully tried to get attorney fees, restraining orders and contempts against me in the past.
Frankly, all they do is lose and I do is win, but they keep coming for more. Even if I "win" I am EXHAUSTED from all this. My health has been affected and I am emotionally tired.
Will this arrest knock some sense into the N or will it just drive this case into nuclear territory for revenge??
You have the keys that will
It was very easy for me to
They aren't about
You're so wise and so right.
You are right to be uncomfortable
LML
There were violent episodes
All Narcs are not violent
There have been violent
Hi Lilacs
You know, you got the
Restraining Orders
Pumpkin
I pray every night he finds