Everyone thinks fireguy is the "perfect" guy...

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#1 Feb 11 - 9PM
angelgal
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Everyone thinks fireguy is the "perfect" guy...

OOOOOOh, how this bothers me so much, when I KNOW the deep dark TRUTH about him! The long distance girlfriend and all of her family and friends think he is so wonderful and that their girl has the greatest boyfriend!!! His co-workers think he is this upstanding fireguy that is so proud to protect and serve! NOT TRUE! He once told me that he didn't care about who he saved or who he didn't save, because he doesn't know them, they are not his family!! Little do they know, what a liar and cheater he is! Little do they know, that he "used" an innocent girl for his own sick selfish needs and pleasures. Little do they know, he is one of the biggest creeps their girl could ever be involved with! Boy, it makes me sooo sick how he has everyone so fooled...

Feb 12 - 8PM
cynthia (not verified)
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Serve and Protect, what a joke

It makes you want to barf doesnt it? They are such frauds!! All who get close to him will know the truth just as you do trust me. Its not that hard to fool family and co workers, but when his mask drops and this innocent girl goes crying home to family his cover will be blown. His co workers will probably never know him, remember what Barbara says they compartmentalize everything in their life into different boxes, they keep work in one box, co workers in another, GF in another box. That is how they can live double lives too they separate all the people in their lives into different categories and what they are used for. Mine wasnt a fireguy, but he is a sheriffguy, he also protects and serves the community. I will pray tonight that yours get his thingy burned off and mine gets a bullet in his.
Feb 13 - 3PM (Reply to #8)
angelgal
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Cynthina, its scary to think they protect and serve...

When they are the ones we need to be protected from! Thanks for your encouraging words and understanding. I pray that his mask falls off soon and this girl and her family see him for who he really is BEFORE its too late!! I can only pray and pray and pray! Its hard knowing what I know about him and hear that others think so highly of him! My stomach turns just thinking about his fake facade. I know I need to let it go and realize that he can't hide his true self forever, right? That mask will have to fall or crack sooner or later!! Remember that song, "Who shot the sheriff", well, that song is for you for your ex, sweet girl! LOL
Feb 13 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
cynthia (not verified)
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He took an oath

to protect and service others, what a hypocrite, how would you like him to pull you over after speeding? He is the perfect gentlemen too and sooo professional, excuse me while I barf. His neighbors love him, his mother worshiped him, the captain thinks he is great, such a hard worker, his GF is sooo brainwashed she cant see straight after 8 years with him, wish I could call her and tell her while she was cooking dinner for him he was screwing me in a hotel room 10 miles away and telling me how their relationship is failing and he is not happy in it, I should play all the voice messages he left me telling me how much he loved me, and how often he jerked off thinking of me - bet she would love to hear those. Calling me when they were on vacation together telling me wish I was there instead of her, or maybe she would like to hear when he told me his GF would DO ME in a second while he watches, mmmm ALL OF IT LIES, LIES, LIES, I always wanted to wipe the shit off his lips after he spoke but there was so much bull crap always pouring out that it wouldnt have done any good. I coul d make his life hell by just letting the GF listen to his voice on my cell phone, but Angel why bother, it wont undo what he did to me and I am not going to provoke a sociopath that is a sheriff, too dangerous, one day he will hang himself and I wont be around to see it but what goes around comes around everytime eventually, Karma will get him in the end. Yours also, he can talk all the charm he wants but their actions never back up what they say, he will say one thing to her and do another. They always have trouble in their relationships, ALWAYS because their relationships are so shallow and superficial.
Feb 13 - 4PM (Reply to #10)
angelgal
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Phony liars under Oath, for sure

what damn sick mental hypocrites they are, Cynthia!! UGH!! What they get away with in their profession!! I would hate to be rescued by Fireguy in a fire because I think, I'm sorry, I KNOW, he would save himself before he would save me or someone else! Its really sad that they have everyone around them so brainwashed! He and everyone around him thinks he is a "hero", what a laugh! These guys are no hereoes, just BIG FAT zeroes!!
Feb 14 - 9PM (Reply to #11)
rache
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tell me about it

my cousin married a guy who is a firefighter-she worked at hospital and supported his worthless ass for years as he cheated and lied to her.
Feb 12 - 8AM
Lily
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Hi Angelgal, do you and the

Hi Angelgal, do you and the "N" fireguy happen to live in Florida? I dated a man in the fire service in FL and the similarities you describe, including the photo of him and his neice on a public website, are eerie. Don't let him get to you. You deserve better. His current girlfriend will find out in time how and who he is and she too will move on like you. Hopefully she will find this site to help her understand, like you, his behavior is all about him and will never be about anyone else. Take peace in knowing that the emotional roller coaster of being involved with this man is over and time and counseling will heal all emotional wounds. Take care.
Feb 12 - 8PM (Reply to #6)
angelgal
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Hi Lily

I live in MD, to answer your post. Its not hard to believe that there is another story out there similar to mine with a "fireguy". It just saddens me to hear that you, too, have been hurt like me by a fireguy. I always thought these guys had more heart with the line of work they are in, risking their lives everyday to save people, boy I was terribly mistaken. I'm trying so hard to not let him still get to me, but its still pretty difficult for me. I have my good days and bad, like all of us here. It just frustrates me to no end that he is seen by the gf, her family and friends like this "good guy", when he is far from anything "good"! I pray that the gf will see the light...but I'm not so optimistic because my cousin contacted her and told her all about him and how he lied to me about having a gf and how he used me. After being told and warned about the "real" him, she chose to STILL move away from her hometown for him. It saddens me that she could still be with him knowing how he used me, another girl, I'll never understand how she can just ignore that. It just really seems like things may work out for him, its so not fair! I pray that somehow, someway, she will see him for who he is and drop him like a hot potato! Not that he would "really" care, because we know that he doesn't have real feelings inside that hollow body of his. Thanks for your encouraging words. You take good care, too.
Feb 12 - 1AM
itreallyisabouthim
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I know how sickening that

I know how sickening that must feel. Trust me! Dealing with the N is frustrating all the way through. First we have the frustration of the cognitive dissonance (he says he's a nice guy but has the morality of a troll!) and when we finally get it we can't get an "amen" out of anyone around!
Feb 12 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
angelgal
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itreallyisabouthim

Its amazing to me how these guys have so many fooled and 'really' do think they are "good guys"! They truly don't even know what morals are"! SICK SICK SICK!! It is so frustrating to where you just wanna punch their lights out! I mean, good guys treat women like whores, they lie, cheat, use them for sex? NOT!! And, yet, they have no problem uttering those words, "I'm a nice guy"!!! OMG, I wanna gag!!!
Feb 11 - 10PM
Barbara (not verified)
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angelgal

start posting him on the exposure sites maintain no contact everyone else who thinks he's so great can HAVE him! bleech! ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website
Feb 12 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
peacewarrior
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It helped me to detatch and

It helped me to detatch and remember when I once thought the exH was a great and such a nice guy and when I still believed what he said. I can remember when I'd think "wow..I/we are so lucky..we have so much in common...wow how did I get this lucky??? then the good guy, his words reflecting me back to me, my intersts, values, relationship beliefs were just a false imitation, pretense that eventually crumbled. This assists me to forgive others, their disbelief the P was not real..just excelled as an actor morphing into different personas grander than the person they were with. It helps me to forgive myself for I wass human also. I did not know there are people who pretend they are the lies they tell you to "win" you over and nothing real behind the lies. I have insight to FOO, pretense, to like what others like, calim to lvoe what they love conditioned, programmed by verbal and mental abuse to not be a seperate person. I realized what a trap, pit is woven for since pathalgoicals blend in, give convincing performances we sound nutty when they experience this nice/great guy/woman who's been impersonating them. Or when we have a reaction when a pathalogical person morphs into a different character in front of us..vastly different then the face they show us it appears we have the problem.