Clever little NARC- Text me with a new phone #
Clever little NARC- Text me with a new phone #
Here I was.... Feeling sooooo strong after my session with Goldie. Yesterday, received one of his ludicrous emails, (did not reply).
Then, last night at 7:15pm while enjoying dinner with a friend and her family received a text from one of our mutual friends saying, "avail?"- (this is (was) always his way of checking in with me when he wanted to talk during the work day.)
I put two & two together because our mutual friend and I had just exchanged birthday emails and would not be texting me.
I did not respond.
But I will not deny, I'm in a world of hurt today. After my conversation with him on Thursday, I know he has a 3rd date tonight. Said the woman was taking him out for his 50th birthday. Then claims his "Former" (btw- this reference to his x-wife is NEW- I know her and he has always referred to her by name) is taking him to lunch on Sunday to celebrate his birthday. For the record, his "former" left him for a woman after 21 years of marriage.
Apologies to all of you for going on and on about the NARC. I need to be focused on my own recovery. But today, it's eating me up that he will be romancing some woman tonight, putting on his best act to win her over. I know it's all an act. I am bugged to no end. But then again, that's what he enjoys. My reaction to him. Oh sure, I cried my eyes out on the phone Thursday night while he was silent. Then finally responded in his robotic, emotionless was, "I understand you're hurt........"
FUCKING MONSTER!!!!
NC is the only way to go- And it really is a FUCK YOU...
Hurting today, but it will pass eventually...
Love to all of you- We will get to the other side
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