The List

Please everyone remind me that if someone is capable of these things even ONCE, then they are not going to change. PLEASE remind me:

1. Said Cruel things about the appearance of people around us as a means of conversation with me.

2. Did not take me out

3. Immediately got in the passenger's seat of MY car after us drinking at a bar, assuming that I would be the responsible non-drunk driver.

4. Hung up the phone on me because I wasn't talking enough

6. Chain-smoked

7. Told me if I ever cheated on him he would kill my lover

8. Grabbed my crotch really, really hard and made some really sleazy sound, and then violently let go of his grip which hurt more then the grip itself

9. Never returned a back-rub. EVER

10. Told me about how great a kisser his GF of 6 years was

11. Told me about all of his exes and their sex lives in detail

12. Told me about all of his current OW, while I was seeing him

13. Asked me to look at my Tarot cards to answer questions of about 10 OW in his life while he was sleeping with me

There's so much more. Thank you for listening - I am ashamed that I ever gave this non-human the time of day. But I have to admit it to someone. Thank you thank you.