CF update

My ex did very similar to his ex wife and his children. When she first told me he had done this type of thing I have to admit I wasn't sure I believed her as he had not done it with my knowledge, however as time went on I started to notice things like he put on inappropraite songs when they came for the weekend and taught them the swear words in songs when they were four and six! As they were both boys I could see that he was using every method he could to undermine her authourity. When she mentioned all the incidents in court the judge ignored it and agreed on him having the boys every weekend. He convinced everyone she was neurotic and paranoid and this is why to this day I am so 'hung' up on the language used to describe women, particularly emotionl states of women. It isn't hard for any man to get other men and women to believe that his ex is unhinged. Society still buys in to the idea that women are emotional wrecks or they nag and therefore deserve to get hit! To my shame because I had never met anyone like him before when she first told me I was sceptical because I couldn't imagine why a grown man would be behaving in this way with his children and when I challenged him he said, 'she just whinges about everything'. For a while it made sense as he left her to be with me, so I thought she might just be trying to cause trouble. Now I am ashamed I ever felt that and she and I are still friends six years after I left him!

Excuse me? He did what? Exposed his buttocks to a 4 year old child? And you! In my state this is a crime called 'open & gross, lewd & lacivious behavior.' A person can go to jail for this! In my state, the prosecution & the judge would really be offended by this behavior. His being your husband & the father of the child is not an excuse to commit crimes. And, he's separated from you. In my state, get convicted 2x for this & dude gets to register as a sex offender for 20 years! And, I think this must be everywhere since the federal government set forth the guidelines for the sex offender registery. Conditioned highway funds or something like that on having one in each state. You ignored him! Please. Go to the courthouse & file an application for criminal complaint. You don't have to put up this this. Also take out an RO, if you're the least afraid, this is really an intimidating, stalking act. He's giving you stuff to work with here. Use it if you want. These guys respect nothing & nobody! They are not harmless. They destroy people. Suck the life out of people with their offense & demeaning nonsense. I cannot believe how this guys toys with you all the time. Now he's unemployed. What about new women & her children? Is she gonna support him? Or does he miss you because he wants to come home to you for support? These guys are just outrageous.

That dude is freaking retarded. This is a perfect example of not caring about consequences and doing what he wants. But he doesn't even care about his son...why would a dad do something like that? Please tell me you recorded that or took a picture or have some sort of log on it so that a judge can see how crazy this lunatic is. What a weirdo.

Tell your attorney about the butt incident asap, and let her know he can't be trusted on web-cam with your children due to inappropriate sexual behavior. Good, one less thing you have to deal with. He just keeps burying himself deeper and deeper.

I know he's a CF'er but my jaw literally dropped at the image of him putting his butt up against the camera... what the heck (besides Narcissism) is wrong with this man???? I would be filming this stuff and documenting it too. Nuts.

inappropriate notice how he's fixed on his son rather than his daughter. typical sociopathic misogynist document it all - tell your lawyer ASAP has he had his psych eval yet??? ~~~~~~~~~ The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem Visit My Abuse Website