Gaslighting

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#1 Aug 23 - 7AM
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Gaslighting

Does anyone have any examples of how they were gaslighted? (great movie btw).

I am healing but this morning I am trying to figure out if I was gaslighted. I am posting a few examples of what I thought maybe gaslighting that was done to me.

One evening while we were no longer together but still "friends" we had finished texting and he accused me of sending him an inappropriate text meant for another man.

Another time he was harassing me for a friends phone number which I told him I did not want to give him. I finally relented and sent it to him and he told me I sent him a scrambled number and that he would get it himself. I then proceeded to end with him right there. The next morning at 5:30 am he said that I had texted him a nonsense word and he was answering me.

In the bringing he admitted to asking me "loaded questions". To see how I would answer and react.

When we would see each other (ldr) he would say he would be back in a few hours and not show up or call. When I would ask what happened he would make like nothing happened.

I have a few more that I can't remember off the top of my head. But I will post as they come to me!

Ten days NC!!!!

Aug 25 - 8AM
Very happy girl
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Wtf

Aug 25 - 12AM
ValiditySeeker
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gaslighting

Aug 24 - 10PM
evergreen
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crazy!

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #29)
yokidoki
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Who me crazy?

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #30)
round3
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HA - yup. Crazy

Aug 24 - 7PM
TruthbeginsToday
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I can add

Aug 24 - 7PM (Reply to #27)
Very happy girl
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Wow

Aug 23 - 2PM
Deidre99
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You know, in looking through

Aug 23 - 9AM
Deidre99
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I call it being an asshole.

Aug 23 - 1PM (Reply to #21)
GracefullyFree
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Round3 has another name for it

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #23)
round3
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This is true!

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #24)
round3
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Well... really...

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #22)
round3
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Yup - - that's my word!

Aug 23 - 9AM
GracefullyFree
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Gaslighting

Aug 23 - 8AM
kollontai77
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Is this

Aug 23 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
Froglegs
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That's not gaslighting, but

Aug 23 - 10AM (Reply to #11)
kollontai77
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he was lying

Aug 24 - 11PM (Reply to #18)
evergreen
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attention

Aug 23 - 2PM (Reply to #12)
Deidre99
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I honestly might throw up. I

Aug 23 - 2PM (Reply to #13)
GracefullyFree
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Feeling Icky

Aug 24 - 3PM (Reply to #17)
Rising Dawn
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Well-said, GF! ICKY is the word!

Aug 23 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Deidre99
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That's so true, Grace. I

Aug 23 - 3PM (Reply to #15)
GracefullyFree
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Grace Kelly

Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #16)
evergreen
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Ingrid

Aug 23 - 8AM
Goldie
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Narcs LOVE to blame and make YOU look bad.

Aug 24 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
nymphofthewoods
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They do it with a vengence

Aug 23 - 8AM
Froglegs
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Example for ya.

Aug 23 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
kollontai77
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wow

Aug 23 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
Very happy girl
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Holy I don't even know what!!

Aug 23 - 8AM (Reply to #5)
Froglegs
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Very happy girl,