Action/Word Misalignment

A common hallmark of Narcs!  I remember telling my XP/N all the time that his actions didn't match his words.  I would go on to say that actions speak louder than words and he would get pissed and say he is the exception and that for him it was all about his words. I knew better, of course, but he was MY soulmate and since I believed I was the exception to his past relationships, then it made sense to allow him to be an exception as well.  More crazy making, narc induced fog wishful thinking!  Here is an excerpt from Baggage Reclaim:

"When you allow someone to persistently and consistently talk a good game without delivering, it’s like allowing them to bend over in your life and fart an incredible amount of hot air."

No more narcfarts for me!  Here is the article in its entirety:

http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/actions-matching-words-in-a-nutshell-if-...