Yikes!

I knew it! ExN texted me to wish my happy birthday. I can't believe he even remembers - he never did before, and this is the first I heard from him in 7 weeks since his last hoover. I'll be NC 9 weeks tomorrow (not counting the hoover).

He just doesn't get it - he thinks everything is just fine and we are still friends. Incredible. I don't know if I should laugh or cry!!! I am not going to respond, but I am definitely thrown for a loop!

Don't worry, I won't let him ruin my birthday - I plan to enjoy myself, my friends, and my Narc-free streak.