Counting this as blessing

Yesterday I had celebrated my birthday and I made a point of having a great time and I didn't hear one peep from my Ex-narc. to me this was the best gift he could have given me. I'm starting to make new happy memories for myself by enjoying time with really good family and friends and not have to worried anymore whether my EX-Narc was going to give me the ST or D&D me. NC is definitley the way to go to get rid of the toxin out of my life. I'm looking forward to a clean and healthy life. :-)