Experience of him dumping OW or Next Woman?

It seems that a lot of people on this forum not only struggle with being left for the OW, but also seem to obsess and ruminate about her and them together and the perceived happiness they now share.

If you are at this stage, please remember that the OW is no different from how you were then. And it's only a matter of time before he begins to cheat on her or finds his next OW, leaving OW #2 devasted just like us. Once when I went back to him, he told me he told his newest source that he was back with me. In fact he didn't, just pulled away from her and strung her along until we broke up again, in effect cheating on Her with me. When our union crashed and burned the last time, he returned to her, I'm sure much like he returned to me, "you are the one for me, I'm not interested in anyone else".

Let's hear about your experiences of the break-up of his relationship after yours, so people know it is completely inevitable that the Narc is a nomad of the heart and will always be seeking his next source. A lyric from one of my favorite Indie rock songs come to mind...

If you're gonna be a restless soul
Then you're gonna be so so tired

Maya