Tattoo Ideas?

Hello everyone my name is Lauren and I have posted responses to other people's posts, but this is my first. Quick summary: I have been married for 14 years and have two children with my NH. Six months I told him I couldn't' take it anymore. We still live together because of our terrible finances. He is a very involved good father so it makes NC a bit tricky. With me he is a controlling nightmare. He is the perfect narcissist - he has tons of friends who ADORE him and think he is the sweetest more caring, funniest guy ever. Only his close family understand how controlling and mean he can be. However, that is not what I want to talk about right now. I want to talk about tattoo ideas.

My NH HATES tattoos. I wanted one forever, but never did. One of my first defiant act towards him was to get a tattoo for my 40th birthday in 2010. (My kids astrological signs are Cancer and Pisces to on my upper right back I have a cancer crab surrounded by two swimming Pisces fish.) It was a pretty empowering thing to do and I think started my road to recovery.

So now I want to get another one. Something to remind me I am strong, I deserve peace in my life, I will not be sad and lonely with out him. So I'm throwing it out there - any ideas?