Do they change for the next one?

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#1 Mar 11 - 12PM
ggbabi45
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Do they change for the next one?

This a topic that I have seen on here asked in similar ways....do they really change for the next one and become nonabusive and truly care? ExN is settling down with a single mom after telling me I am not ready to settle down and I can't give him what I need..I also noticed a pattern with abusers that they tend to rush into relationships...either that or they are just desperate.

Mar 15 - 11AM
TNR1
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I don't know how he is with

Mar 15 - 6AM
midnight7
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Ns are incapable of change -

Mar 13 - 11AM
Portia
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Change?

Mar 13 - 1PM (Reply to #25)
c_jennings
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HA!

Mar 12 - 7PM
mirrorshaker
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something I think about too

Mar 11 - 8PM
greengirl91
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Have you ever seen "Alfie"

Mar 12 - 5AM (Reply to #21)
Snowflake
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greengirl

Mar 15 - 2AM (Reply to #22)
greengirl91
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Yes, they end up sad, angry

Mar 11 - 9PM (Reply to #18)
ggbabi45
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I will HAVE to see that

Mar 15 - 6AM (Reply to #20)
wsh
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Yes....Afraid of

Mar 15 - 2AM (Reply to #19)
greengirl91
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It`s funny, witty and smart

Mar 11 - 8PM
lavendar19
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I was the other woman for a

Mar 11 - 8PM (Reply to #15)
ggbabi45
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I once heard that narcs

Mar 11 - 8PM (Reply to #16)
lavendar19
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Lol! So eery how similar all

Mar 11 - 5PM
slowly.moving.f...
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I've often wondered this myself

Mar 11 - 5PM
matahari
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What he means is he could not

Mar 11 - 5PM
MountainLady
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They CAN'T care

Mar 11 - 4PM
Sparrow
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Of course they change. But

Mar 11 - 4PM
needing2know
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The only thing they change is

Mar 11 - 3PM
onwithmylife
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if you

Mar 11 - 4PM (Reply to #8)
ggbabi45
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Mine had 5 failed as well

Mar 11 - 3PM
Layla
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They NEVER change.

Mar 11 - 1PM
Deidre40
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I also think they target

Mar 11 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
onwithmylife
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Deidre

Mar 12 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Deidre40
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why keep getting married,

Mar 11 - 12PM
tootsgee
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I dont think they change ...

Mar 11 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
Movingforwardnow
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I don't think they change either from all I have read...