I left the N

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#1 Mar 5 - 4PM
virgo789
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I left the N

I've been lurking on this forum for a few days. I always knew something was strange with my "boyfriend".
We were together for 7 years. After reading your stories, everything became clear.
I left him today and he has no idea where I am. I was in the d&d phase for almost a month. He would come home and completely ignore me. We would sleep in the same bed, but we slept so far apart we were almost on the floor.
In the morning, he would act like nothing happened. Except this morning. I was scheduled to have my drivers license road test today. He was leaving for work and said, "Good luck, see you later". No I love you, no hug.
He's said I love you every morning since we've been together. He did it to mess with my head. He thought I would be wondering why he didn't say it and that I would screw up my road test. I didn't go because I was so upset. I got even more upset because I knew he would be mad because I failed. I couldn't believe he had so much control over me. So, I decided that he wouldn't have any more. I packed up my important papers and clothes and left. I left the keys on the table and I'm never going back. He called me and his voicemail said, " I'm home and I was calling to see how the road test went". Did you not notice my clothes and shoes are gone, my laptop? He doesn't care that I'm gone, so that's why I should be gone.

Mar 6 - 10AM
Movingforwardnow
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Oh how strong you are!

Mar 6 - 10AM
Used
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virgo

Mar 6 - 8AM
sadderbutwiser
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virgo, well done!

Mar 6 - 8AM
Deidre40
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I am delighted to read

Mar 5 - 9PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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virgo789

Mar 5 - 9PM
janemarie
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You left...and that is

Mar 5 - 8PM
Dorothy1
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I find you amazing Virgo. I

Mar 5 - 7PM
agnesmurphy17
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Suggestion?

Mar 5 - 6PM
Sparrow
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Congratulations on your

Mar 5 - 6PM
Deestarr
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Very brave

Mar 5 - 4PM
ichooselife
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Good for you!

Mar 5 - 4PM
needing2know
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when a man does this to

Mar 5 - 4PM
nlvr7
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your authentic life begins now!

Mar 5 - 4PM
Hunter
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I hope you have a permanent

Mar 5 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
virgo789
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I left because it's best for me

Mar 5 - 4PM (Reply to #3)
needing2know
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Good for you changing your

Mar 5 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
virgo789
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He sent me a text stating the obvious

Mar 5 - 5PM (Reply to #5)
peaches
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Good LUck!

Mar 5 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
virgo789
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He'll turn on the charm

Mar 5 - 5PM (Reply to #7)
Hunter
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Ok then ..Welcome to

Mar 5 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
virgo789
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Thanks

Mar 5 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
phantom adoration
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Welcome

Mar 6 - 3AM (Reply to #10)
Snowflake
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You go girl

Mar 6 - 9AM (Reply to #11)
ewa
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You are amazing