Always on Match.com

Match.com a lion on the hunt.. It hurts because it's real for you and you're an object to him.. NC = Freedom Hunter

mmmm my ex Mr Perfect uses a social group we were both in for constant new supply..... its easy pickings..... its horrible and nasty and thank god for you that you are now out of that and giong to be moving onward and upwards. xx

PD's are notoriously lazy and dating sites provide and easy way for them to secure cheap and easy supply fast. I don't say this as an affront to "normal" people with feelings and loving souls, I say this from the PD's point of view. They can make contact with many, many, many people with their BS, and sit back and wait to see who will "bite". They are predators, and predators seek prey- relentlessly. They DO NOT STOP. It's one, on to the next, and the next, and the next. They never stop, because they are never satiated. They are NEVER SATISFIED with what they have, it has to be more, more, more and different, constantly, endlessly. Know the enemy, and stay away. Work on your own self and hurts and weaknesses. Go forward and be happy- which isn't too difficult after the hell the PD put you through..... love~ Layla

though I'm sorry you had to land here. This is a good place to be for you right now. You will find the tools and resources and support you need to move past this and soar into a new disorder-free life. It hurts so much because you were duped. Because you BELIEVED. You were honest and open and trusting and you were wildly TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF by a self-serving, self-centered predator who cares only about himself. And you are right. You are onto him and busted him so he's outta there onto his next unsuspecting, tender-hearted victim. I say GOOD! It's his loss! He's the loser who will continue to repeat the same pattern over and over again. Please do not pay attention to anything he is saying or says. Please do not engage with people who tell you about what he's saying about you. It means nothing. It is literally MEANINGLESS and not based in REALITY. You know the REALITY that he lied and cheated. That's all you need to know. For him to be saying these things, dear newwoman, is so TEXTBOOK. Truly. Read all you can here. The blogs are very helpful. You will see that it was never YOU, it was ALWAYS HIM, and the outcome couldn't have been any different. These disordered ones are predators and master manipulators. Frankly I'm glad your gut told you to snoop and you got the answers you need to get out of a toxic, maniuplative relationship and find your way to the kind of life and love you desire and deserve. This is a good thing, truly! Trust that this process--working the steps--will reward you in ways you cannot imagine right now. I'm here to tell you there is a beautiful life on the other side. I hope this helps, some, dear newwoman. You are allowed to feel hurt, feel the hurt and then let it go. Most sincerely, (not) spinning. IT WAS A FIGHT TO STOP BUT WORTH EVERY INCH OF THE BATTLE!