Red Flags-

Hindsight is 20/20 after a few months-

These are red flags I ignored and blamed myself for. I thought because I was questioning his behavior and getting upset I caused some of it to occur more...

-the stare on first date like he was looking into my soul through my eyes
-moving very quickly (always w/ a narc.)
-was "on and off" with his girlfriend when we started dating
-talked about threesomes a few weeks after dating. Said I would like to see you give your best friend oral sex (jokingly yeah right). I know I should have run but laughed it off.
-Told me he was needy.
-gifts,trips,key to his house after a month, talked about having kids and marrying me after a month.met the family immediately
- I talked to him about the military and how it is wrong when spouses cheat while their loved ones are deployed. He said: "Well, people do get lonely,"
-I told him how I thought his employee was very sweet and pretty..he said."I fucked her.No I'm just joking haha."
-would lay in bed with me and call me whore,bitch,cum dumpster,slut and say it was a joke.
-His family was saying after one month that the rest of them were bitches and they wanted me to marry him and have his kids.
-groped one of his female friends breasts in front of me and when I got upset told me that's his personalty and if I couldn't handle it we shouldn't be together.I ended up apologizing.
-mind games-taking a long time to answer texts on purpose...but always made time for me when we went out so thought nothing of it.
-Continued to talk about threesomes and say "I would do it for you because I love you." "You have to do it with someone you will never see again and wake up in the morning and laugh about it."
-Called me a cunt when drunk..apologizing the next morning because he drank tequila
-Told my best friend I was a dipshit
-toward the end would say he would call me back and not call back all day. I was working but still dont say it and not do it.
-His face never lit up when I walked into a room
-Got a lapdance from a stripper and called me before he went to the stripclub to say he needed to hear my voice and not mention he was going. It's like he was more excited about sex after he had a strippers ass in his face.

He had good ways where he always included me in everything up until the end. I hate him right now and hope he rots in hell at this point and I've never hated anyone. I hope his new girlfriend cheats on his impotent ass and figures him out before she marries him but she is pretty gullible so she probably wont. Plus she has a 2yr old and doesn't have many options. He is a loser but he is still in my head and I hate him for that....I know -it's pathetic...F&^% YOU P.O.S NARCBOY!! Just sayin'