They DO always come back...
They DO always come back...
I've been reading y'all's stories about how your xN tried to contact you after the break-up, and I never really believed mine would.
When he dumped me (after a horrible devaluation stage, like so many of you experienced), I was starting to catch on to all the horrible mind games he had been playing. I confronted him about those games, and about all of the other women he had been seeing while we were together.
Anyway, since I had let him know that I was onto him, I figured he would be out of my life for good. For the first few months, he was keeping tabs on what I was doing through a mutual friend. Now, it's been about six weeks since I've had any contact with that friend(she always wanted to talk about my xN and his new girlfriend - no matter how many times I told her it was painful for me to hear about it.)
Since I've been no contact with her as well, I've been so much happier, and I can really see how that helps with recovery.
I thought they were all out of my life for good....but today, I got an invitation from the xN on LinkedIn. We're not in any of the same professional circles, and I've cut all common personal ties that we have, so I don't think there's any way he could have come across my profile by accident.
I ignored the request, of course, but I'm frustrated that he won't just go away. Even though I'm on my way to recovery, I still feel pretty shaken that he tried to contact me. He's been with the other woman for a few months (who he also dated before he and I met), so I'm sure it's about time for him to start looking for alternate supply.
But, why won't he just go away? Is there anything I can do to be rid of him forever?
You have to be the one to let go
22 years!
My therapist once told me
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TICK DICK!!! I love it!!!!
Lilone
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They have a personality
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I got Hunter beat
OMG - 20+ years for some of
LOL - awesome Redhead!
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good one Red
Hahaha....
34 years for me!
To be fair to them :)
True, but who cares what they