please tell me what you think of this
please tell me what you think of this
A lady that has known me since I was born talked to me today and asked me how I was doing, I told her everything and she just looked at me and smiled,she told me when someone or something in life causes you that much pain and stress you get rid of it, She then told me she understood how I felt and she was so happy I was able to walk away and never go after him again. She is 80 yrs old and I love her to death! She was a councilor of many many yrs and helped me with my first exN, when he went in for his drug and alcohol abuse as a last ditch resort to get me to stay , she broke the rules and called me to tell me he was bullshitting his way through it and to go forward with my plans to get away. I did just that.
I asked her how she could understand so much about NPD and Narcissism ans all the other stuff. She just looked at me and got teary eyed and said " because honey I use to be you" She lived the abuse but she said back then men were just called "The Devil" She has not seen or heard from him in over 40 yrs! I asked her if he ever tried to contact her again and she said no, even though she had a son with him. I told her that according to research and others they always come back, she said well if that is true she wondered why he didn't ever try. So maybe they all really do not try to come back at one point, maybe there are those very few that just go away for good.
She said that he probably didn't ever try to contact her because she told him if he ever did, she would then hunt him down and cut his little dick off LMFAO!
She never did re marry, she said she made herself happy and no woman should ever have to rely on a man to make her complete!
She told me to tel everyone here to keep our heads up, and keep supporting each other and take care of ourselves, because in the end God will decide their fate! They will b judged if not in this life but the after life.
What a wise woman...
I think knowledge is
I think
Wow!
Awww..can I meet this woman??
I do believe some of them
What blessing to have her in
She truely is a blessing for