Lemons to Lemoade

Aaaaaaaw! Dogs are one of my top favorite things about life. I really love them! I went for a walk yesterday with a friend and her dog. The dog is huge! (a shephard mix) She is so happy to see me that within the first few seconds of getting in her van Im covered with fur and dog-kisses! lol! A big, sweet baby :) Its true.Some of the most simple pleasures in life are my favorites. Morning coffee, sunshine, walks, good laughs with friends, music, quiet time, shopping, more coffee....etc. I enjoy things again that I couldn't enjoy when I was with the narc. Socializing, food, everything! I have chronic back pain that limits me, and tempts me to complain, but there are many more good things in my life than bad. I was greatful to have a valentines day free from upset and unmet expectations.

fantasy island?!? lmao "the plane....the plane" yes puhlease!!! im boarding t plane t hell out of nville. thanks for t laugh!!!

This evening, I am grateful for chocolate cake and lots of it!, for a big bubble bath with all the lovely bath stuff my friends bought me for my birthday, the yellow roses my mum brought me yesterday, the fact that she did all my ironing whilst I was at work today (haven't seen the bottom of that pile for months), and for the fact that it's 10 past eight - the time the narc used to come home from work, and he's not here!!!!!Yeah! Great post Hunter - I needed a kick up the bum!! xx

I woke up early and got coffee and took the puppy for a walk in the park. This has become my daily ritual and i LOVE it. Watching him happily sniff, run, pee, poop, jump, chase, run, swim, fetch. He sure knows how to keep it simple and enjoy and or deal with whatever comes down the pike. God bless, Goldie

so during lunch break I went and bought myself flowered mugs and bowls for my new kitchen. After living in a houseshare for a few years, it gives me so much joy to finally create my own space... full of my own things and new happy (narc-free!) memories. :)

Needed this kick in the butt today too. Woke up feeling down (not sure why but yes N has been on my mind lately..ugh...he's moving out of my town and was texting a few weeks ago to tell me...but I ignored!!) Came on here after a very looooooong time away and narc free!! Woohoo, life is good, did hot power yoga last night, I have a wonderful job, wonderful friends, taking my boys skiing next weekend and am blessed with their smiling faces telling me they love me every day and that I look like I'm in my 30's!! Hey, I'm 48 I'll take the compliment! We are women....we rock!!!

I like this thread! Today started off great with my daughter just being so goofy and laughing at everything. Today is also the first day in a while that I am actually being productive and getting things done. I am going to actually get on my elliptical in a few minutes and work out (Yay! it's been a while). Later - roller skating party with my daughter's school, and then group tonight!

Thanks for this Hunter. I am going to be thankful that today morn I was busy doing a design for someone who will pay me some pittance after 4 months...still, a job order is a job order, never mind it will earn me a few dollars. kept my mind off hss-CN. and starting today... i have blocked him out. now, have to shampoo my brain and use conditioner too. thanx again...shall start next morn also with at least 1 positive thought.

I woke up today with arms and legs that felt like noodles due to my Zumba class last night. New instructor, new moves..........she killed us with her workout, and I am feeling it. But, with that said........no pain, no gain. Life is good, even if I can barely lift my arms. LOL Great idea Hunter. And by the way, I am digging your avatar! De plane, De plane! lol Have a great day my friend!

I woke up to both my wonderful boys saying "good morning Mom" I actually did my hair today instead of the quick and easy pony tail. As I was walking out the door for work, my oldest, (a teenager who you know how they are - aren't very observant) said. "Wow, mom you look real pretty today. You shouldn't wear a pony tail so much" And it's Wednesday, which has now become a day I so look forward to because we have GROUP tonight! I can't wait and am really looking forward to it. Thanks Hunter. This was a great idea and a fantastic way to start my day! Happy day to all!

OK. I woke up early, went for a wonderfully peaceful 30 minute walk amidst light drizzle, came home and made myself a great healthy breakfast. Gave myself a pat on the back for starting the day positive and taking care of myself. No negativity from my past will derail me today.