How long before the devaluation started???

As I sit and think of his "last words" to me, it got me to thinking. He told me to not contact him or his family (they contacted me) again and to not come up in "2 weeks" and call him. I thought that it was strange that he would say "2 weeks". All the times, and it was at least every wk to 2 wks, that he d/d'd me he was the one who initiated contact me, not vice versa. So I'm assuming that he's been at least talking to another girl prior to the break up 12 days ago and that he's planning on attempting contact with me soon, which will be 2 weeks. My point is.....as I think back, it was about 2 weeks into the "relationship" that he started devaluing me. He started pulling away, withholding sex, complaining about me, etc. And thinking back to the texts that I saw in his phone, it was about 2 weeks into the "relationship" when he started texting exgf's and other girls.

So when did your xN's start the devaluation???