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#1 Feb 5 - 3PM
star17
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Got a call...

didn't answer it but i could hear him and his girlfriend talking...nothing interesting but i still could hear them. He always accidentally calls when things are bad between us so i do know it's on purpose but what i don't get is why?! He broke up with me, he has a girlfriend i am leaving him alone like he says he wants so why torture me?!?!? :(

Feb 5 - 4PM
Jar of hearts
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Omg!

I hadn't even really though of that star17! Yes that is very disturbing!!! I couldn't believe he did that either but it's just one of his many sick things he did ... I hadn't long given birth to our son when he pulled that gem!!!! Xx
Feb 5 - 3PM
Jar of hearts
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Sick!!

They are sick sick sick that's why! Hunter is right he did it on purpose!!! Mine accidentally rang me which screwing his nw!!! .... I know he did it on purpose because he asked me weeks after ( because I just deleted it immeadiately and never mentioned it to Him) if I was jealous I was missing out?!!!! I can't print here what my reply was !!! They are the vilest of vile!! Xx
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #12)
star17
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I can't believe your X did

I can't believe your X did that!!!! So cruel and sick and his OW didn't even know she was being used as a weapon to hurt you...think about it this way YOU were on his mind while he was with HER...hos sick is that?! so disturbing!
Feb 5 - 3PM
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If he was blocked this woulnt

If he was blocked this woulnt be an issue .. Why?. He's a Narcissist .. And yes he did this on purpose. Hunter
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
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Hi Hunter...i can't block him

Hi Hunter...i can't block him from calling cuz I don't have a droid phone...i have called to try and do it...my point is though why? he is getting what he wants i am no longer bothering him and letting him be free to be happy with his girlfriend...3 years of hell was long enough...
Feb 6 - 2AM (Reply to #9)
kartaga
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what he wants is attention.

what he wants is attention. one person is never enough for them. being with one woman and knowing that it will upset the other, or even more than one, is his drug. by stepping back you arent doing any favours to him. if you continue to plead, and beg, and cry, and contact him - those sickos love it.
Feb 6 - 7AM (Reply to #10)
star17
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very true...i think that is

very true...i think that is where i get lost...thankfully i don't think like him so when i do what he wants and he still twists the knife it just confuses me...say what you mean and mean what you say...
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
Hunter
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I know it's a pain but change

I know it's a pain but change your number.. It's freeing Hunter
Feb 5 - 4PM (Reply to #8)
star17
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I know i can imagine that it

I know i can imagine that it is...but since i only have to wait a few more weeks i'll just wait it out...
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Armed
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What kind of phone do you

What kind of phone do you have and who's the provider? You don't have to have a droid to block numbers. If you cannot get your service provider to block the number there is also an app called Mr. Number download it onto your phone and begin blocking. Happy blocking!!!! And to answer your question he will never let you go in peace. Narcs are sadits, they want you to suffer. When he feels you're moving on he will come back to attack you. They want everyone to feel just as miserable as they do on the inside. Get a new good man who treats you right and he finds out about it....whoa watch out! He will remind you of the imaginary mr perfect and play with your mind. They don't want us to be happy, ever! Once you're his victim, you're always his victim.
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
star17
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that's the thing i can't

that's the thing i can't download apps...BUT my phone is up for renewal in March to one more month and i can get a new phone that can do it they told me :) You know your words hit home on "once you're his victim you''re always his victim" because in some ways even though he says he doesn't want me he still wants that control over me it seems. I actually feel sorry for his gf because his mind obviously is not on her...full time at least...and yes he is miserable...even though he portrays himself as happy he has told me he isn't happy with her...which is just stupid to me because if that was me i'd be saying how happy i was with my new man...the new man i WILL have someday who will love me for me and not torment me to get his kicks!
Feb 5 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
Armed
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Star17

Normal men don't get their rocks off hurting others only demons do. He doesn't care about anyone but himself. He may not want you but you're right he still wants that control. Control and power are what they seek. They don't want your love they want respect. Very twisted!!!
Feb 5 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
star17
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absolutely!!!! which is why

absolutely!!!! which is why he is doing this i know...i stopped calling i started walking away and bam...i get this...he doesn't want me but he doesn't want me to be happy either...it really is sad to me.