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#1 Dec 6 - 11AM
Blythebloo
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WOW, have you found god… awesome!!!! You need him/her/it because you fail to see what you did to us and others… and yourself, but he will confuse you more! As  for a phyc test… BRING it… I will pass with flying colors!!! At least people don’t say I’m bipolar!!!
 
The state guidelines are FINE… just obey the rules set by the state and we will be fine, but make sure you read the rules in their entirety (I have a copy if you want them), things will change March 19, 2012.
 
I’m glad you made peace with your family.. you needed it!
 
And the part you HATE the MOST… is you know the true me… and what I would have been had you been faithful and trusting! It’s all good tho, going to the counselor was the best thing that ever happened to me (thank you), it helped me gain the strength to leave a verbally abusive, cheating girlfriend! I don’t hate on you around our daughter, nor do I hate you, you were just confused and selfish! And as for revolving women… that is YOU with men, you need them to make you feel good about yourself. The person I’m with now has been a best friend for 4 years next week, and always been there for me, she knows me better than you EVER will.  I have NEVER felt love until NOW, and I have never felt so in sync with my life until now… don’t get to hooked on god, we evolved from water and dirt… if there was a god, things in this world wouldn’t be so twisted!
 
I’m happy you are happy, I’m not going to hate, you did as much evil as I did… but I can drop it and move on, those 2 people (Ricky and Celeste) made each other monsters, we were thrown into a twisted tornado. I was never like that before, and you brought out the worse in me… but those days are gone… Gisele will see the real me, just as Gracie does… we will see how that chapter plays out, I’m not worried one bit about the girls, they know I love them, and they know my family loves them, and they know my life partner loves them… and they love her… life truly is a blessing now.  I’m so fortunate for my family, and the growing of a new one, and getting the chance to do stuff right this time, without crazy exes, and in-laws… If there is a GOD… he is rewarding me right now with all the love around me, and not only do I feel it, my family sees it, and they are as excited about the recent events as I am!!!
 
And I DON’T want to be your friend, I just want to be a co-parent for our lovely daughter, and your right our values, source of fun, and enjoyment couldn’t be further apart, but that doesn’t matter one bit now. It’s about sharing time with Gisele, and letting her decide what she wants! So please stop hating on me… you don’t have one clue of what kind of person I am, and everything you listed, I can give you the same example aimed at YOU, but you were toobusy trying to replace me when you could have been getting to know me… but NOW I’m thankful you did… I found what I have looked for my entire life, and couldn’t be more complete right now!!!!
 
Evil people are dumb. Ricky 48:2
 
People who become evil when provoked are standing up for themselves, and dishing out a taste of the abusers own medicine and it  usually works! Ricky 20:11
 
Take care Celeste, I blame US, not you, nor me, or anyone. We BOTH could have handled situations better, and communicated better… but we were an EPIC fail… TOGETHER!!!
 

Dec 7 - 8AM
ChickyD
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This is almost exactly the

This is almost exactly the kind of email my gf received from her exn after she went NC on his ass. Damn. Creepy ass motherf******!
Dec 6 - 5PM
nomoredenial
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I found what I have been

I found what I have been looking for and am complete right now. that says it all right now until the next 1. those of you who have seen the dark energy include me on the email creepy. Showed up twice when asking his energy to leave
Dec 6 - 3PM
jackguy
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I'm sorry if this was painful for you to read

but like someone else said I think it is great that you posted it here. This is so absolutely textbook projection, devaluation, etc. It shows how robot-like they really are - it's written in a very parrot fashion way with all the pseudo-morality, empathy blah. They are so disordered. I really wish you well Blythebloo.
Dec 6 - 11AM
Im_always_fine
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Maybe he hasn't heard the

Maybe he hasn't heard the good news! "Ricky's boring and doesn't count" The Gospel of Celeste 24:7
Dec 6 - 11AM
empath
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projection and written for his divorce attorney's benefit...

This is a stunning example of projection, as you are already well aware. Print this email out and frame it! After forwarding it to your divorce attorney, of course. Resume NC and don't spend another second attempting to make sense of this. The N is always right and always plays the perfect victim. Know what you're dealing with, make sure your therapist and attorney know what you are dealing with as well. Textbook Narc attack. Thanks for sharing this here on the forum.
Dec 6 - 11AM
Used
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Blythebloo

Did I misunderstand I thought you blocked him after emailing him?
Dec 6 - 11AM (Reply to #19)
Blythebloo
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I thought I did through my

I thought I did through my hotmail settings and I just checked again and it says his address is blocked. So I don't understand. I do receive my emails mostly through my iPhone so I don't know if that's why it came through. Anyway. Glad it did. Just a reminder for me why he is not a good person. Do you know if I can block emails that come to my iPhone? I figured I had to go to the server (as I did).
Dec 6 - 11AM
Hunter
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A little sword fight in

A little sword fight in Narcville.. Ok this cracks me up.. Save this. Little Gem.. And do not respond.. Do not give this this any more Gas.. Can you say Projection?? Hunter
Dec 6 - 11AM (Reply to #17)
Blythebloo
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Thank you Hunter. I am

Thank you Hunter. I am laughing too. At the lunacy of his words. Projection at it's best. He is king!!!!
Dec 6 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
spinning
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Bly, please listen to

Hunter. This guy will play dirty. No more written communication from you. Let him rant in writing. It will be ammo for your attorney and the judge. Don't give him any more fuel. Most sincerely, (not) spinning. AND WISHING I COULD SEND YOUR FREAK SPINNING OFF THE PLANET

spinning

Dec 6 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
Im_always_fine
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The dumb ass...in his effort

The dumb ass...in his effort to win he let it slip how long he was having an affair with his "best friend of 4 years next week"...he gave the DATE he started seeing her. ammo
Dec 6 - 12PM (Reply to #9)
Blythebloo
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I've heard all this talk

I've heard all this talk about the new OW before. He said the same exact stuff about a different one 2 summers ago. Just happens to be this new one who he claims is his best friend is convenient, single and took pity on him. I am guess she may be a narc too. All he said about her when we were together was that she had a new boyfriend every month and was a serial fiancé. Makes ya wonder!!!!
Dec 6 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
Done sourcing
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If your happy and you know it clap your hands!

When everything is roses and unicorns, who takes the energy and time to vent at an x telling them how happy you are now, and in such detail. I clap my hands and move on, leaving the past in the past. This guy is really something. I love the part about being glad you have God, then saying God doesn't exist, then saying if there is a God then God is blessing him. He really worked hard to sound normal, but his disorder makes that impossible for him. It isn't even about what we did or didn't do in the r/s, or how we acted, or even if we ourselves were sick and misbehaved and regret some of our thoughts and actions...this is really about separating once and for all times from the disorder and darkness of an empty smoky cloud of pain, named Narc. ds
Dec 6 - 2PM (Reply to #16)
Hunter
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DS

Love this!
Dec 6 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
Blythebloo
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You'd think I threw some holy

You'd think I threw some holy water on him as much as he mentioned God. I hope he spontaneously combusts.
Dec 6 - 1PM (Reply to #15)
Done sourcing
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Maybe narc are the result of

Maybe narc are the result of spontaneous combustion! ds
Dec 6 - 1PM (Reply to #12)
Im_always_fine
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Ironic isn't it...the Bible

Ironic isn't it...the Bible says the devil comes as an angel of light. That he comes to steal kill and destroy. My NARC/parasite appeared as an angel, glorious, sent from Heaven. But He stole my years, killed my health, and destroyed my finances. I'm kinda feel'n how Eve in the Garden was seduced by a serpent into violating everything I knew was true.
Dec 6 - 1PM (Reply to #13)
Done sourcing
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Interesting observation, as

Interesting observation, as we always remind each other that they lie, cheat, and steal. I knew mine for 14 years, and she definately got darker and emptier, and for the few months before I finally moved out even her eyes changed. And we both noticed dark shadowy things at the edges of our vision. I felt a huge energy force entity of some sort the day I moved all my stuff out of the house. It hit me when I was trying to get back in through the front door to get some more items. It bounced me back, and it was powerful. I will never forget that feeling, it was chilling and dark. ds
Dec 6 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Im_always_fine
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Yeh I'm not sure how explicit

Yeh I'm not sure how explicit I want to get into some of this. I can't believe you mentioned the "dark shadowy things. I too have been seeing the "black wisps" in my peripheral vision...ever since I started exposing him and confronting him with the truth. I too have encountered some "unseens" We'll talk in private.
Dec 6 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
Used
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i-am-fine

THAT WASENT A SLIP, THAT WAS SAID ON PURPOSE!!!!
Dec 6 - 11AM
Victim-no-more
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Yep......hes a piece of shit.

Yep......hes a piece of shit. His "life partner" huh. Ughhh .
Dec 6 - 11AM
Im_always_fine
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TEXT BOOK. The poster boy for

TEXT BOOK. The poster boy for NPD.
Dec 6 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
walking_on_sunshine
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He is serial predictable.

He is serial predictable.
Dec 6 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
Hermes
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Just

Damaged human beings. Just that. Our tiredness, constant stress and hyper-vigilance give our minds a right working over. Hermes