When does the weirdness end

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#1 Nov 26 - 11PM
Amiee
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When does the weirdness end

I haven't been on in a while. I have been working a lot and being with friends...moving on. I have blocked the PD from FB and my phone. I have blocked all his GF's I knew of, family members, anyone that could get information that I could think of. I threw away his information and number,the only thing that had any informaton about him was the civil protection order and I have kept that in my car but never look at it.

Since court, the last time we saw each other, he tried to have me arrested, he has email bombed, text bombed and phone bombed me. He was moderately amusing when he had theme weeks such as anxiety disorder week, legal week, grandmother week...I ignored it maintained no contact, I thought he would quit. Nope, he amped up. He has now email bombed everyone on the protection order. I thought my email and phone had been compromised, I checked they hadn't. The only people being bombed were listed on the protection order. My Boss called last week and reported that he is getting text and phone calls for me, bosses wife is pissed. My mother has had over 20 calls per day, from solictors he signed me up for, for at least a week. He signed me up for dating websites using my mother's email. He signed me up for a web domain, using my mother's email. I don't even know what a web domain is! It has to be him because these people have no other connection and none of my other friends have this issue. Repeatedly, when I confront the callers, they tell me I just requested information from their website, every time I haven't been online all day and I never sign up for stuff. He doesn't work bc he is semi retired so he has all day to do online crap.

When does it stop? I am so over him and everything. Wednesday, I holed up and shut down. I am so embarassed that this mess is impacting my work and family. I am worried I will lose my job. I spoke to law enforcement, not much they can do. If he is doing this, what else is he doing that I don't know about??? I feel that NC has made him more irrational and pissed. What makes them go away?

Nov 27 - 10AM
Goldie
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Amiee

A protection order includes texts, emails, friends. And if for some reason yours does not then you get yourself to the courthouse, not the police station and get all of that added to your order. If this is not a retraining order, the you get one from the judge. This ends when YOU end it. You should have been at the courthouse the next day when he first violated the order. You have sent him a strong signal that all of this is O.K. with you. You go to the courthouse. Walk into the clerks office and get the paper work to do this right. This is ridiculous that you may lose your job over this, of course your boss and his wife are going to be pissed, no surprise there. FYI, many in law enforcement are also narcs so they don't take your complaints seriously. A judge will, and you must lay it on thick in your paperwork, do not leave anything out. Make sure you include: emailing you, texting, you, contacting people you know with their names, ect.... Please respond to me on here if there are some details I am missing here. Sounds like a violation of order to me. God bless, Goldie
Nov 27 - 8AM
empath
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are you kidding?

Law enforcement said there isn't much they can do? The N is harassing you and compromising your livelihood, impersonating you online, intimidating you and blatantly violating an order of protection...and there's not much they can do about it? Please, don't take no for an answer...consult with a criminal attorney and go to the State Police! You should not have to endure his crazy anti-social behavior.
Nov 27 - 7AM
Hunter
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Hi Amiee, Wow.. This Assclown

Hi Amiee, Wow.. This Assclown is worse that I thought.. Just keep ignoring.. Once he finds new supply he will go away.. My friend had an 8 yr relationship with one of these ass clowns.. It took 2 months before he disappeared.. People want a Hooverer I try to tell them the Silent treatment is much more manageable.. They are sick,sick creatures... All I can say is, if you didn't get rid of him, the next step with this one would be physical... Funny I woke up thinking of you.. Stay Strong Hunter
Nov 26 - 11PM
Syren66 (not verified)
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If you stay nc...and everyone

If you stay nc...and everyone else stays, nc...and you all delete, delete, delete, he will grow tired of going to so much trouble for zero 'reward'. Keep it up! :D
Nov 27 - 12AM (Reply to #2)
Amiee
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It has been six weeks. I

It has been six weeks. I thought he would have gotten bored. I am so pissed about having my privacy violated. I always appreciate your comments and attitude, Syren!
Nov 27 - 12AM (Reply to #3)
Syren66 (not verified)
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Well well well...sounds like

Well well well...sounds like SOMEBODY is low on supply! I think you should set him up with some escort services...I kid, I kid. That is extremely creepy, what he's doing...but these guys don't have much of an attention span...put something shiny and metallic in front of him, I bet he forgets to stalk you. xoxo hang in there...proud of you with the NC...this is not an easy test!