Struggling with NC? Don't believe he's a narc? PLEASE READ THIS!!!

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Nov 14 - 10AM
greengirl91
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This was written to you by

This was written to you by his Father? If yes, WOW. He basically told you everything you need to know, everything you knew before was confirmed.. "He is nt your stone to bear" - that is absolutely true. We need to save and focus more on somebody we neglected and abandoned so many times..ourselfs. Thank you for sharing!
Nov 14 - 10AM (Reply to #4)
Kiwi2005
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Yes! His dad tried to "warn"

Yes! His dad tried to "warn" me in April, I found this site in May... I knew and I believed, but went back in it for "some" which wasn't worth it. I love that!!! We need to save and focus more on somebody we neglected & abandoned- Ourselves!!! Amen!
Nov 14 - 9AM
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Kiwi

Wow. This is a similar to the e-mail I would write my N brothers on again off-again girlfriend if I could. You're very lucky that you have the validation from a psychiatrist and his own father. No one would know better than his dad, he's lived with him just like I've lived with my brother. If I could tell his on again off again girlfriend I'd say that as much as I'd love the girl around because she's a sweetheart and the BEST thing that ever happened to him.. he is not her cross to bear and the best thing she can do for herself is to put her sneakers on and not WALK AWAY but RUN AWAY. It's sad but I believe that my brother will either end up in jail, beat up badly, or living at home with my parents as a middle aged man. Sad but true. And i'm gonna reply to your PM asap! xoxoxo
Nov 14 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Kiwi2005
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Aww thanks girly! Yes I'm

Aww thanks girly! Yes I'm lucky! Hopefully others that read this, can take a thing or two away from it! Xoxox!