Thank you for all your posts! Keep them coming, I am finally getting it.
It is such a new way of thinking for me and it will take some time to make it a habit. When I get derailed, I always refer back to your posts. Thanks soooo much for giving to us. HUGS
Thank You..I felt as if you were talking to me through this post, thank you so much!
I`ve been blessed with the news, through an aquitance, that he is back into our hometown. But it doesn`t matter. It doesn`t matter..
We all need reminders, even daily, especially us newbies.
We WERE ENOUGH, enough for their sick script they wrote from their heads. We played our parts well, VERY well, we got our Oscars ( crumbs of fake love), and we came out on top, well that part you will see in time.
THEY changed the movie, changed the script,found a new actress/actor to play with. They are scam artists, cons, convicts (some), and manipulators.
NOW GO OUT AND WRITE YOUR OWN MOVIE, get a REAL OSCAR!! You will shin way brighter than they ever will, because they are not authentic in any sense.
XX SG
My point being, never think it is you. The disordered have an insatiable appetite for supply. They are never satisified. That's a fact.........we are good enough, just not enough. They will continue to prey upon others, to look in the direction of others, no matter how good we treat them or how much we love them.
They are just NEVER satisified. Work on yourself, you can't work on them. The sooner we accept that, the better off we will be.
This is a long journey for everyone. A hard one.......but it can be done. The sooner we accept this of them the better off we will be.
I have been struggling on and off with this...This tought has made me feel very,very low...Thanks i needed to hear this and i am sure this is the most excruxiating point for the most of us here...HUGHS
Feeling that I wasn't "enough", in so many respects, is what kept me with the N's, all of them, because the more they made me feel that I was worthless, the longer I stayed to try harder and harder to be someone in their eyes. In retrospect, in each case of NPD I was with and there were many, THEY were the insecure ones who felt worthless around ME. And this is where I hit a wall..knowing that I would never be with any of them but desperately seeking their approval. I am just now learning that I must let in real love. That is what an entire childhood of abuse and loss did to me, as well as the twenty five years of adult abuse I went through. Being "enough" means putting the focus on you.
Yes, yes, yes!!!
You are very welcome!
Sparrow
Thank You..I felt as if you
Thanks Sparrow!
My point being, never think
Yeah Sparrow...
Aceonelady
Feeling that I wasn't