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#1 Oct 30 - 4PM
ekat
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I know this is really silly of me, and I've tried to restrain from this most of the week since NC, but I checked his FB and he has put in his profile: carefree and happy. It has really got me depressed and upset. I know he probably put it there knowing eventually I'd see it, but it really hurts. Why would he need to do that? Why would he need to do something which is going to hurt me when I'm already completely broken?

Oct 30 - 10PM
Tiffany30
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I went on FB and tried to

I went on FB and tried to block him, but I couldn't because he had already blocked me.
Oct 30 - 10PM (Reply to #13)
dulcinea441
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Ugh. That hurts, I know. It's

Ugh. That hurts, I know. It's yet another 'diss. If only you had gotten there first, right? Look at it as a blessing in disguise and if he ever unblocks you and tries to make contact, block his ass faster than you can say "Zuckerburg."
Oct 30 - 10PM (Reply to #14)
Tiffany30
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Agreed!

Agreed!
Oct 30 - 10PM
dulcinea441
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Oh my gosh -- BLOCK him. I

Oh my gosh -- BLOCK him. I cannot tell you how much peace of mind it's given me to know that he will not just pop up somehow on my radar. Blocking him on FB has actually given me the luxury of pretending that he has been hit by a train. He no longer exists, as far as I'm concerned!
Oct 30 - 6PM
Deidre40
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facebook. the site designed

facebook. the site designed for people to weave as many tall tales as they can...and everyone on their friends list buys it. lol that's what i think about facebook. bullshit-book it should be renamed. i get the premise behind why it was created but to me? it's evil. it's used for far more evil tactics than not, i have seen. i don't use fb...i highly recommend you don't look at his page anymore. and if he's on your friends list...get him off of there asap. i am adding you to my prayer list. i'm sorry you're hurting. the whole thing sucks, i know. to answer your question? why would he want to hurt you? becaue ...that's what he lives for. hurting women. commit that to memory, and you will not be so tempted to look anymore. time does heal wounds though. and so does nc. ;)
Oct 30 - 5PM
Femmegem
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Insensitive

He Obviously wants to Twist the knife and get you to be really really sorry for not giving him enough attention or whatever his sorry excuse. Do NOT look at his fb, old emails, pictures, texts, nothing! Do not look back whatever you do. He will be wasting his efforts trying to hurt you. Fight back with indifference, I need to do this too and now I'm determined x x
Oct 30 - 4PM
Tigerlily
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Dear Ekat

Checking facebook is breaking Nc and breaking NC = pain and confusion. QOD. Try and see it that, if HE is now happy and free, then YOU are free to be that too. I know it`s hard, but it is at it is - you can either use that for yourself, or against yourself. You ain`t gonna change him NONE! Regards Tigerlily
Oct 30 - 4PM
Used
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ekat

b/c he is not free and happy, if someone is free and happy that dont have to advertise it...its not about you ekat, its about him....lying to anyone and everyone who can see his f/b......block or be tortured...those are your choices..
Oct 30 - 4PM
greengirl91
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Because they feed off your

Because they feed off your pain, your hurt, your happiness, your SOUL. He knew you would be there and see it. You know what mine did? He set his fb profile on automatically seen wall, that when you click on his name, it doesn`t show information, but directely photos of him, stuff from him. He could easily close it, or set it on private if he wants me out so bad, of any memory of his. But instead he did that. It was the only thing remained to do. Expect these kind of things from them, afterall, they are heartless creatures.
Oct 30 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
ekat
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Since we broke up mine also

Since we broke up mine also "unhid" all the stuff others had been posting on his wall. Some months ago he had hidden all the comments posted on his wall and pictures he was tagged in. It annoyed me at the time but the relationship was already rocky, and actually he hid it all because there are all these pics of him with young girls and comments from them too. But how mean to unhide them once we've broken up..
Oct 30 - 4PM
Amiee
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Part of the game, also

Part of the game, also remember they don't have emotions, connections like the rest of the human race. They are all about image, and attracting a supply. The fact he can D&D you with his FB page is just a bonus to him. :)
Oct 30 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
ekat
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I just cannot bring myself to

I just cannot bring myself to accept there is not even a little bit of compassion and thoughtfulness inside of them. But you are right, I need to stop this denial and accept it for what it is.
Oct 30 - 4PM
Hunter
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They live to hurt... Do look

They live to hurt & destroy ! Don't look !! We know what were talking about.. Hunter
Oct 30 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
ekat
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I know I must not look. I am

I know I must not look. I am just so weak at times. I will try and be stronger now.