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Did your N ever tell you he loved you?

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Oct 28 - 2AM
freaked
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yes

Oh yes he said i love you all the time and i must have been a raving retard to have actually believed him when he said me and our child were the most important in his life...i missed the double entrendre there..of course...there were plenty others of varying levels of importance.. and now it is 1 full year since he uttered that phrase to me...and 1 full year since he stopped speaking to our kid.
Oct 28 - 2AM
5kdznme
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Mine did

And actually still does... he'll use that during his low moments - "Unlike you - I still love *you*..." HAH! Too bad he has no idea what that actually means.
Oct 28 - 2AM
dulcinea441
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Yes, often, but it meant

Yes, often, but it meant nothing, obviously. He may have said the words, but he never felt them.
Oct 28 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Lisa87
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Yes but most likely their I love you really means I love ME

Mine said he was falling in love after a month of dating and would say he loved me all the time, thought he really meant it but they are just words like Hunter said. He was following the script apparently to keep me adoring him.
Oct 28 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
Victim-no-more
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I think when they say I love

I think when they say I love you....what that really means is "Im really enjoying the quality of supply I am currently extracting from you."
Oct 28 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
b3base
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Meant nothing

He told me he loved me within a few days of first meeting. He would say it all of the time and write emails with "I love you" all over them. He said it too much. He meant none of it. Many times he would say it in this strange tone of voice and run the words all together. It always made me question what he was really meaning.