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#1 Oct 24 - 2PM
Emma
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Especially for you....

I came across this just now and found it quite apt for the way I'm feeling towards the xN:

Here is a big ' fuck you '. For all the messages I waited for. For all the times I hoped to see you. For all the love I wanted. For the tears I've cried. For letting me believe you really cared about me. For being the biggest asshole ever. For making me fall in love with you. And especially for the heart you broke! :)

Oct 24 - 7PM
Tigerlily
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More empathy from a fucking vacuum!

A vacuum doesn`t give anything, but it doesn`t take either! A vacuum absorbs your cries of pain, but doesn`t negate them. You might become a corpse in a vacuum, but at least you are still "something" and not "nothing". A vacuum is an honest nothing, not a nothing that drives you crazy by pretending to be something. A vacuum is by nature silent and unempathic; it doesn`t pretend to be otherwise. It ioesn`t claim to be your soulmate and then destroy you with the silent treatment, lack of empathy or both. A vacuum is relatively peaceful and harmonious. Give me a vacuum over a narc any time!
Oct 24 - 7PM
Tigerlily
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More empathy from a fucking vacuum!

A vacuum doesn`t give anything, but it doesn`t take either! A vacuum absorbs your cries of pain, but doesn`t negate them. You might become a corpse in a vacuum, but at least you are still "something" and not "nothing". A vacuum is an honest nothing, not a nothing that drives you crazy by pretending to be something. A vacuum is ba nature silent and unempathic; it doesn`t pretend to be otherwise. It dioesn`t claim to be your soulmate and then destroy you with the silent treatment, lack of empathy or both. A vacuum is relatively peaceful nd harmonious. Give me a vacuum over a narc any time!
Oct 24 - 2PM
uk lady
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And also

For all the promise of a bright future together that never materialised because you were so in love with yourself and you didn't ultimately consider me or my feelings. Dee x
Oct 24 - 2PM
needing2know
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You forgot the FUCK YOU for

You forgot the FUCK YOU for TURNING MY LIFE UPSIDE DOWN!
Oct 24 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
Done sourcing
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More empathy from a wall!

A wall will give us much more than a narc will. It will always have your back. You can lean on it for support. It always listens and doesn't judge. It always protects, never projects. It doesn't criticize. It won't take your stuff and move while you're at work. You'll only get shocked if you stick your finger in the electrical socket. It will always face you and never run away. If you tire of it, buy a can of paint, much simpler. If you need some space, it will wait. Ds
Oct 24 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
Susan32
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More empathy from a toddler!

When I broke NC with the ex-Psych, it was to *CHEERFULLY* inform that he had been replaced... with a child. What he had always feared. It's why he was angrier that I was volunteering at a local school than that I was dating. He was afraid ANY child could replace him-whether I had one with him or the kids at the local school. But I informed him, gleefully, that he was a good trial run for a toddler. Dealing with HIS tantrums&immaturity makes toddlers look... EASY to handle. I lost sleep in Boston because of my nephew waking me up with his crying... didn't lose sleep like I did during the final D&D. A toddler is BETTER than an N/P because- 1)They can't communicate that well, because they're young. 2)They'll lose interest in you, but not to hurt your feelings. 3)They're self-absorbed... because they're IMMATURE. 4)Their immaturity is not their fault. 5)Better empathy! 6)They know communication is for reaching out to others. 7)If they're screaming, it makes sense. They're hungry. Or tired. Or hurt. I'm not the type who runs circles around a point.