Do they feel emotions of missing anyone? Just wondered, mine always said, I really miss you, bla bla bla, I suppose they can miss someone but not for love only what they have them around for.
Mine too. Would disapear for a month or two - get back
in touch with me. I knew what he was doing. My gut was going crazy but of course I ignored it. God they suck so bad.
He got me back one time by telling me he was on a 25 mile march and all he did was think about me - after cutting contact with me for two months. Amazing. And of course I melted.
Mine would say he missed me often...sometimes in the middle of the fight he would say it. During the final D&D...he said I knew all along I was going to be missing you and that their would be a void you were my bestfriend. It is going to be tough for me too.... all said with him crying.
I know he is not normal...bc when a person says that and then moments later tells you he will know you are home safe if you dont call him and to never call him again... well no wonder im messed up. He missed me in the moment.
that and we talked so much on the phone a normal human would miss that...much like i am missing it.
Also, when we first went out he spoke daily about his exgf...never said he missed them. The only time i heard him say he missed someone was when he said he missed his mom(she passed last summer)
“It's not hard to find the truth. What is hard is not to run away from it once you have found it.â€
He never once said he missed me in the entire year and a half we were together. I am sure he missed what I did for him (ego stroking, subservience, sex, etc.) but he never said he missed ME. Wow. I must be pretty pathetic to have accepted that. Even when he hoovered me back in, he NEVER said he had missed me.
...means I really miss victimizing you! Mine said that a lot when he was trying to lure me back. I kept thinking, I BET! Nobody to kick around or boss, poor guy...must be rough.
same here... "I miss you so much" "I love you so much" those were nearly daily..... until the last 4 months.
Then when he would behave really badly.. as in I couldnt reach him via cell for several nights in a row. I KNEW he was cheating.... so I would cut contact and try to walk away. That's when I would get the "Why are you being so mean to me Jessika... I love you! I f***ing miss you... I don't know why you just cant trust me... PLEEEEEEEEASE"
Just ridiculous. Cheats on me and completely unresponsive to my texts/ calls... however asks me why am I being mean, just cause he is done messing around for that week!
:'(
same pattern with mine, ignored me for days I always knew he was screwing around it was a definate pattern, then he would call and say, hey where have you been - PUKE, all cheats and liars and bastards
Yeh didn't you just love the hey where you been texts?
Uhm, as it's a mobile phone dickhead I could have been absolutely anywhere yet you could have still reached me in the 2 weeks you've been awol. And I've had it in my pocket waiting for you to stop ignoring me and resurface again when you're bored.
Godddd I'd forgotten about all that HEY WHERE YOU BEEN sh*t!!!!!
Out of interest, what did you reply to that? I was always stumped - unless I'd decided to go sarcastic (which I never did) and my answers were always lame.
ha I always said, I have been right here, where have you been? He would always come up with some bs, mom sick, took a few days off, then he would start in with the charm and crap and how he missed my ass, and wanted to be with me, they are all the same, I think they all live together in a tent somewhere and take notes
I think they miss the distraction of having anyone around to compliment them and listen to them when they are alone. Later I also think they miss that person they used to be able to abuse easily. They don't miss for long as they find replacements very soon.
ROFLMAO
Psycho-Boy - when he did or asked for something outrageous or said something deeply hurtful I would just block him. Then I'd be barraged with "I miss you, please talk to me" emails and messages to mutual friends.
I will never understand why, though. He hated my guts obviously and I didn't put up with his B.S. and didn't stroke his ego in the last year of it all. Just gross and perverse.
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Barbara- I got those emails too from XN when i would ignore or block...and crying voicemails....and please please destiny pick up the phone. I miss you sweetie..blah
“It's not hard to find the truth. What is hard is not to run away from it once you have found it.â€
considering the things Psycho-Boy has posted about me online, it makes those begging emails just BIZARRE - a true WTF?!?!?!?
hug
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same here too
Mine would say he missed me
Mine NEVER said that to me
I miss you...
Ugh
same here
Yeh didn't you just love the
same bullshit
I think they miss the
Ending the dance
missing?
WOW
cynthia
"you're an object to
PapayaPaul
Barbara- I got those emails
destiny