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#1 Oct 29 - 10AM
Hangman11
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Facebook Manipulation

I want to know why this fool HAD to tell me he has a facebook account now? Was it just to manipulate me? Of course I went and searched his name (i don't have an account) and there was a picture with him and his (daughter from previous marriage)like he is the doting father..when in actuality she isn't even speaking to him. He left both of his children 3 yrs ago to move to my city, he says out of "love and devotion" to me. I say he was running from something. I will never look at that page again as hard as NC is I agree with Barbara on this. I so want to curse him out this morning, to think I considered reconciliation. After seeing that, I told him, I DID NOT want to be wondering what my husband is doing on the internet..I simply want this divorce to be final so I can get rid of him for good.

Mar 13 - 11PM
Kelly
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Block

I couldn't help but look at my ex N's fb until I blocked him a few weeks ago. Healthy choice for me. It was mental mutilation to look at his haughty photo and that picture of him with his current girlfriend. FB can mess with your mind in ways we didn't have to deal with a couple of years ago. BLOCK him!
Mar 13 - 12PM
quietude (not verified)
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I thought this was funny...

For those of us whose exN's tried to 'friend' us on FB post-breakup: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ty9QsAvM4jg&feature=featured&playnext_from=TL&videos=LiFVwQrDMLE&playnext=1
Mar 13 - 11PM (Reply to #6)
Kelly
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Ahhh hahahaha

That was funny :)
Oct 29 - 11AM
quietude (not verified)
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hangman

I know curiosity gets the better of us, but not responding to him and his CRAZY ANTICS, which are only meant to purposely hurt you, is a BIG way of silently saying, 'I DON'T GIVE A SH** BUDDY!' Keep up No Contact! (Mine popped up on FB several months ago and sent an invite ~ I just hit 'ignore'). Dork.
Oct 29 - 10AM
Sinead
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Sounds like he wanted

Sounds like he wanted another reaction from you, something my ExN would do, I've had numerous strangers try to join my MSN network recently, all with new accounts created the same day they request my network. I believe the best way to deal with it is not to even look but if you do have to then don't let on you have, he's a nothing, your divorce is going through, he means nothing to you, that's how he should feel, whatever you feel inside don't portray it, you are not interested, he's a waste of oxygen
Oct 29 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
Hangman11
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Thanks Sinead and 4joys

Really, your ExN too huh? Jerks!! I took it as a slap in the face because why put the daughter in the picture? why not a picture of just yourself? Figure he wanted a rise outta me, but it just let's me know he's a Cyberpath out there on the internet again (if he ever left). My girlfriend said after our court date in February he will be "marrying somebody else 3 months later"...LOL..similar to how he did me, she's probably right! RAT BAstard!
Oct 29 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
4joys (not verified)
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No contact and you wouldnt

No contact and you wouldnt have known about it. I admit I look at my ex's facebook from time to time. He's a creep and has creepy friends. No real friends. Just old supply from when I first met him. And when I see his face I swear at it.haha! The good feelings are disappearing.