Sneaky hovering

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#1 Sep 12 - 12PM

Anabelle

Sneaky hovering

So last night I posted that I am getting there. Also that I am expecting a contact attempt.
En voila. I have developed next to him my own 7th sense I guess....

He accepted my friends request on FB, I have posted to him in the name of my company months before he dumped me....It's a really nice smart sneaky try.
Obviously I get a reminder straight to my mailbox... = he can't get trough my mails and he can't reach me on skype (blocked, blocked, blocked, friends are super blocked) so he came up with this lovely move. HOW SAD!!!!!

I know some of you get excited/upset once this happens and get shaky and all this.
I GOT FUCKING ANGRY. (sorry for the language) I have any intention to react, but actually I am asking myself how, did he dare to contact me, after he left me with the apartment, alone in trouble. WHAT A JERK. But than :) I DONT know what the f...f...k he thinks of himself!!!! Honestly. But than I started to laugh...woohhooo I got you... :)))

SOOO predictable. So desperate, SO cheap, SOOOOO NNNNNNNN ...with this he just proved the obvious for me. Plus I know that new NS is not so much fun, I am a pretty cool supply, so he can starve on his choice. I am so much better without him, there is absolutely NO way, he is getting back to my life. Especially not with his SICK family.

As soon as I find the codes on this site I will just kick him out. But maybe I shouldn't even bother.Stupid idiot ass. I HAVE Got a life. And that life does NOT include him.

#2 Sep 13 - 2AM

KeshaN

The N's always get desperate

The N's always get desperate and do stupid things. I have been in no contact mode for 5 days and finally no more pain, confusion, frustration, and anger. They really do get a kick off seeing us hurt. My n acted happy every time i told him i was hurt. Now I get mysterious private calls. I never answer them because I know that it is him. We've done this many times and every time i start getting these types of calls. He has also sent me a chain letter which i think is some stupid attempt to get me to say something because When we are together i never get one chain letter from him or private call. i hurry up and blocked him from my FB and i will soon change my #

#3 Sep 13 - 1AM

Journey

Lol! Mine did some sneaky

Lol! Mine did some sneaky hoovering recently too, very similarly. Made me laugh cause it's so random and thus seems so obvious.

Journey on...

#4 Sep 13 - 2AM (Reply to #22)

Anabelle

I deleted that entire page.

I deleted that entire page. But I just realized, that if he adds me as friend, I can see his profile as well. Well I missed that opportunity. Didn't even crossed my mind that I can also look at him. :))) Wondering what is the message he wanted to pass :) I am afraid this we never going to figure that :) That's life.:) I guess I am free from him ... so I can start working on my own development.... xxxx

#5 Sep 13 - 1AM

Anabelle

I DONT go/contact back

Just to make it clear to everyone. I am not contacting him back and I wont go back. I have a much better life without him. So i didn't consider none of the moves above. I just find it funny/sad, how he decided to give me a superficial move thinking I will react:: OHHH heee marked meee!!! OHHHH - because in his sick mind I am still SO much in love with him. WRONG ... well those days are over... I told him 9 weeks ago never ever contact me again. Woman language: never ever again = Not today, not tomorrow, not until the sun explodes Maybe I should have expressed the form of the not accepted contact forms as well: online or in person, by handwritten letter, sending over your mother, lightpost, on knees, etc

#6 Sep 12 - 8PM

Sunafterrain

Ok

obviously it's a week right out of the disordered's play book. Contact your ex week. Whatever. Ignore it. "IT" will pass. I look at attempts at contact like this. Sort of in passing kind of thing...."oh he's bored again..." sort of like a ghost who haunts your house once in awhile and goes silent again. They are so so so so sick. Think about it, if this were a normal man, he wouldn't contact you at all, nevermind that the relationship might have had some closure. Not with these idiots. It's a shame that some were contacted and went right back. Hopefully next week is "What the hell was I thinking" week for those who went back. Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeez.

#7 Sep 12 - 10PM (Reply to #18)

Unfreakinreal

I love this post

Came over for a minute after hitting a rough spot during writing my story... I would much rather be on the no closure express than heading down the 'What the hell was I thinking?' highway. That's for damn sue.

#8 Sep 13 - 1AM (Reply to #19)

Anabelle

That's the point. I am not

That's the point. I am not going to do anything and it wasn't even touching me honestly. I just thought I am sharing it, because it's rude. Not accepting you while you are togeher, but after x months he remembers... idiot.

#9 Sep 12 - 8PM (Reply to #16)

needing2know

LOL Ok so I haven't heard a

LOL Ok so I haven't heard a word form my exN, does that mean he is A NORMAL MAN? (46days!!NC)

#10 Sep 13 - 1AM (Reply to #17)

Anabelle

LOL

I am afraid need2know, such thing hardly exist. I mean in general... even if he is not a N :))))))) But stay cool 46 days are woow :))))) Maybe by the next full moon :))))) LOL

#11 Sep 12 - 5PM

needing2know

I miss understood your post

I miss understood your post sorry! I thought you just sent him a friends request.

#12 Sep 12 - 4PM

needing2know

So Anabelle, why would YOU

So Anabelle, why would YOU send him a friends request?

#13 Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #13)

Anabelle

I did not send him a friend

I did not send him a friend request now. I sent it to him months ago as I wrote it. I tried to set up a small company about 8 months ago, because I was desperate and I had no job. It was a dead idea from the beginning because I wasn't in a stable mental situation to manage it. We were still together back then. I set up a page on Fb for the company and I invited to that site all relevant people. It was about 5 months ago. He dumped me 9 weeks ago. He managed to confirm that request from 5 months today.I haven't touched FB in the last 9 weeks, and to be honest I completely forgot about this site. I am not using it. But because this account is linked to the company mail, I got the confirmation, that he joined the site. So I didn't break NC if this was your question.

#14 Sep 12 - 2PM

Unfreakinreal

Is it a full moon?

Sheesh. I got a text at work this morning to tell me that Andy Whitfield from Spartacus had died. Really? Apparently he was scanning the obituaries this morning and figured he would let me know. That's the best you can come up with? I was more annoyed than anything. And didn't bother to respond. Doesn't the fact that I am not chasing you down like a pathetic loser anymore give you a clue that I am not interested? BTW in the past 11 days I have had 6 of no contract. Not all in a row... But 1000 times better than I have ever done. And I am liking it!

#15 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #10)

needing2know

Good Job Unfreakinreal lol

Good Job Unfreakinreal lol proud of you!!! i have had this strange feeling all day and I don't know why, I keep thinking I'm gonna hear from my ex, ( been 46days) since D&D , but something feels really OFF today. can't put my finger on it, don't think I will hear from him, but something is off today.

#16 Sep 12 - 5PM (Reply to #11)

Unfreakinreal

Thanks DLB!

I am definitely having an empowering couple of days. I hope it lasts a little longer.... :)

#17 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #3)

Used

unfreakingreal

it must be,,,something both my narcs have tried to hoover this last week.....vampires reunited....lol

#18 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #5)

Unfreakinreal

OMFG

I JUST got a text from the previous N... "Why are you thinking of me, honey?" Have not spoken to him in over a year. What the fuck is going on today? Time to lock the doors and pull the shades down tight. It's so strange today that I am kind of afraid to even mow the lawn...

#19 Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #7)

Used

unfreakingreal

and had you been ,and if not ...you are now.....they dont stop do they?

#20 Sep 12 - 5PM (Reply to #8)

Unfreakinreal

Aaaaaaarrrrgggggggghhhhh!

The UPS guy just came. It's a box of all the crap that I sent back to the N in April! Didn't open it, I recognize the box. Tossed it right in the bin and my dogs fresh turds on top of it. I must be emitting something. Do they think I won the lottery? Oh, to be the chosen one...

#21 Sep 13 - 1AM (Reply to #9)

Anabelle

They theater is so

They theater is so boring.. All these drama for your attention. PATHETIC

#22 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #6)

Anabelle

freakiiiiiing

:)))))) What an arrogant text. it's really something to ignore

#23 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #4)

Anabelle

there is a spiritual

there is a spiritual happening now... it's called the Solara gate activation... It's VERY spiritual. It moves a lots of energy... about awakening and healing... maybe that's how the energy moved.... :) look it up :)

#24 Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #2)

Anabelle

Yeah I was also wondering...

Yeah I was also wondering... Somehow everyone is struggling in this team and on the N team as well... I feel that things are going crazy.. RIP Whitfield... I guess he was an extremely significant person in your life... anyways thx for the note... NOOOOT!!!! I was also super annoyed. if he contacts me properly, Hi what's up? AT least I don't think he is a coward. But like this... i was VERY annoyed and it made very angry. SO N. Today he killed all my doubts on that. Idiot.

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