Asking for some prayers

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Aug 17 - 12PM
Used
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RUBYWOO

yes, i will think and pray for you and your poor dad...try to take minute by minute that is all you can do.. you will go were ever you let life take you and we will be here to guide you thruxxxxx
Aug 17 - 12PM (Reply to #6)
RubyWoo
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Thank you Used! It is so

Thank you Used! It is so painful to pray for an end to the suffering, but I know he needs it and so does my mum.
Aug 17 - 12PM
spinning
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Ruby, sweet girl, I have

been thinking of you and sending out good vibes for strength and clarity to you. I do not think it's wrong to not want your father to suffer any more. I have been exactly where you are, so I know what it is like. I will pray that he has peace and that his spirit will soar. Ruby, I was fortunate that I had my dad for 53 years. I am so sorry you are losing yours at such a young age. Ruby, your life may feel like it's falling apart, but once you are through the process of your father's end of life and letting go of the disordered, abusive relationship your life will really begin! It will soar! You have so much good ahead of you. It will present itself to you when you are ready to see it. This is the truth! Ruby, be strong. It's so hard at a time like this but I know you can do it for your mum and your family. You are valued and cared about, braveheart. Never forget that. Hugs from, (not) spinning. AND IT FEELS GREAT!

spinning

Aug 17 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
RubyWoo
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Thank you Spinning! I have

Thank you Spinning! I have been thinking of you a lot knowing you went through a similar situation. It saddens me so much, that my dad will never see me get married or see his grandchildren. It saddens me that my future boyfriend, if he comes along, will never have had the joy to meet the amazing person my dad was. I am trying so hard to be strong, the pain of all this combined sometimes feels more than I can handle. I'm back to work in a few weeks and I really don't know how I will cope...
Aug 17 - 12PM
Layla
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I'm there for you in spirit Ruby!!!!!!

I was 20 when I lost my dad to cancer- he was only 45 years old..........I understand, you want his pain and suffering to end. That is compassion, you are a loving and selfless daughter. I will add your dad to my prayer basket today asking for a peaceful transition... Know I am with you in spirit, take it easy on yourself, death is part of life, not a "good" part, but a part all the same......us humans get pretty connected to our loved ones here on earth, but our Father in heaven see's the "big picture" we don't see! ; ) much love~ Layla
Aug 17 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
RubyWoo
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Thank you Layla, I'm so sorry

Thank you Layla, I'm so sorry for your loss as well, life sometimes feels so unfair. Cancer is such a cruel illness, and having to go through it at such a young age is really hard to deal with. I just keep praying that he won't suffer, and that my mum will be fine. She has been next to him 24/7 for the past 10 months and I really worry about her now too.