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#1 Jul 21 - 8AM
Hunter
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I peeked

Ok guys I peeked, fine .. I know.. I'm only sharing this because I want to show an example of a FREAK!

He's on vacation with his Dog! Is that sick or what? I wonder if his mother tagged along and the three of them are hanging out at the hotel bar!

OMG! I like my dogs but I prefer to go On vacation with family or friends!

What was I thinking? A complete freak, assclown!

Hunter

Jul 24 - 8PM
charms0917
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He is probably quite pleased

He is probably quite pleased with him. He gets to be the "alpha" in that relationship. What a satisfying relationship that must be for him. Seriously. Think about it. If the most healthy relationship you have is with your dog.... Sheesh.
Jul 23 - 8AM
Sparrow
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Ha! Bet he's getting a lot

Ha! Bet he's getting a lot of actin huh? A dog and a Mother.........too funny! I for one am glad you peeked!
Jul 24 - 2PM (Reply to #11)
Hunter
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Sparrow

Peeking for me helps me. It shows what a waste he is. I do think he is de compensating and Im a bit worried he's going to show up. Im going to Jingle you this week :) Hunter
Jul 24 - 9PM (Reply to #12)
Susan32
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Please use the English language correctly!

Peeking has helped me too... then again, my final D&D was 11 years ago. The ex-Psych prof gave a lecture back in '09 (when I broke NC)... and I was neither exhilarated nor envious about it. It simply made me... *LAUGH.* I wouldn't have let his lecture title out the door. I speak as a writer. "Quietism on the Side of Happiness"... HAPPY I missed out on that one! I have better ways of wasting my time.
Jul 22 - 12AM
sunny 523
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Hunter, my dear friend....

Aren't you thanking G-d that is not YOUR life! Imagine.... You, narc, and dogs on Long Island. EVERY year. With YOU footing the bill! What a life!! Wooooo hooooo!!! XOXO
Jul 21 - 10AM
Hunter
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Love it

The answer is.... "Control" You guys crack me up! Hunter
Jul 21 - 9AM
ordinarycourage
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Dogs

My exN was obsessed with our family dog ...took the dog once during our separation without asking, offered to buy the dog during mediation. Loved the dog....not the people!
Jul 21 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
Used
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THEY LOVE THEIR ANIMALS

THEY LOVE THEIR ANIMALS BECAUSE THEY CAN CONTROL THEM....AND THEY CANNOT ANSWER BACK...MY MOTHER HAD 4CATS AND 2 DOGS...SHE ADORED THEM....BUT LET ONE OF THEM GET OUT OF LINE AND THERE WAS HELL TO PAY.
Jul 22 - 12AM (Reply to #7)
tresor2
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Dogs & N's

When my dog met the N, he took one sniff and backed off. Even dogs don't like N's and I've read that N's, in general, do not do well with animals...probably because they are similar in terms of their emotional depth and inability to show empathy.
Jul 21 - 9AM
janine
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It's a dog's life

Of course he went with the dog, because no one else would go away with him. I guess mine's no longer going on holidays since I left. Nobody will come along. Or would anyone here like to kneel by the roadside and heat up a tin of baked beans, because restaurants are too expensive?
Jul 21 - 8AM
dabussard
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LOL

Hunter, I agree vacation with family and friends is awesome... My N prefers to sit in his house alone, drinking Busch Light and rocking in that damn chair... What a life!!!
Jul 21 - 9AM (Reply to #3)
lillymarch
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My ex-N does not drink or

My ex-N does not drink or smoke. He is perfect. He was a leader for a men's group. He tried for a long time to create a non-profit to help people/children. This all looks and sounds good. Then at home his children and I would here his car pull up (randomly, never consistant) and scramble around with fear. He was not a violent person but controlling and angry. He blamed me for everything in his life failing. Then would later deny that he said it or that it was true. Vacations were things he did without us. They were always under the guise of making money. He fanageled so many people out of large amounts of money. My mother included and behind my back. He's such a sicko!!
Jul 21 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Goldie
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LOL

My narcs idea of a good time is to start drinking after work, do some coke or crack and spend his entire paycheck before the week is over. He does not go on vacation because he has no money. So Hunter your's is a step up from mine, at least he goes on vacation and the dog thing. I'm sure the dog loves going on vacation with humans must be real fun for the dog/NOT. What an assclown, LOL!! God bless, Goldie