Objectification

For us normal folk to truely get youre head around living life without emotion is mind bending , I dont think we can truely grasp it . My narc would do grand jesture of love one day and by the next he would have walked over me in the street if i dropped down dead . No its impossible to understand .
The only thing i can think of in my situations that i could possibly be the same is this analogy .
A couple of years ago i decided to get a new car so i started to look at new cars and i got really into it , comparing diffrent models and going to car show rooms and chatting to friends and eventualy i brought the car and for a month or so i kept it really nice and i looked after it but slowly the car lost that new car smell and sweet wrappers appeared in the back and the children crumbs would get mashed into the seat and i kind of lost intrest in it . I was looking at my car today and was thinking what a reck it is but im not that bothered , it dose its job and gets me from A to B .And i can only think that this is how it must be for a narc with people , the narc sees people as objects ,that, at the beginning they are idealized (thats not love as we know it )and then when that person has lost their new car smell they look around for a new model .
Its very sad that a narc can never feel love ,just imagine a life without love . For all the narcs arrogant and superior ways they truely are the loosers here , they are frauds and liars .
From Out of the fog . http://outofthefog.net/CommonBehaviors/Objectification.html
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